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lose my baby

Can someone anyone who know how it feel to lose their baby can talk to me please I need someone to talk too
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4836151 tn?1363194812
hey hun theres nothing wrong in crying or talking to someone about it trust me hun if you try and bottle it in it just makes things worse

i have had 1 still born that was my first child and it killed me theres nothing worse then giviing birth and you see your child being rupped ect and still no cry i panic asked what was going on all the docters mid wifes all arould my baby 20mins went by still no cry i screamed asking why she wasnt crying why cant i see or hold my baby and then the nurse came over and said im so sorry but shes not breathing that sentece and picture sticks in my head forever

i have also miscarried at 26weeks on my first scan we found out i had twins at 16 weeks i started bleedng rushed into hos told i was miscarrying upset i stayed strong cause i knew that i had still had 1 baby lelf we find out that i was having a boy so happy then at 26 weeks started bleeding so muc pain then fell to the floor blood every well went tolte and there was this lump size of my hand with eyes ect rushed to hos were they said youve misscarried that distoryed me took ages for me too get over it i am now ttc now hopefully theird time lucky :) feel free to take or inbox me hun much love your way x
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5584541 tn?1371137015
I had two missed miscarriages and they both were devastating after the first miscarriage I tried not to get too attached too early to the following pregnancy but it didn't make things any better when I lost that one also I cried for weeks, its painful and it hurts really bad so if you need to grieve feel free to cry, a lot of ppl don't understand especially your partner because they don't know that as soon as women see those two lines on a pregnancy test or see the baby for the first time on ultrasound that's when the attachment begins I feel for your loss and I hope you get through this I am always here if you need someone to talk to
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Having a miscarriage was actually way more painful for me then actually going through a natural birth. I had very bad cramping, large blood clots, lots of bleeding. I would say for about 2 weeks. My next period was a month long. Which might be adnormal.
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I was pregnant with triplets a year ago I still cry everyone any one I know gives birth
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