I had 3 IVF's and became pregnant with a healthy baby on my 3rd IVF. Before I had the last IVF I had lost weight and did acupuncture - which helped, but what helped me tremendously and brought down my FSH was taking certain supplements that I read about online (not vitax or fertilaid). I also found a study done in New York at a clinic where they helped women over 40 conceive and have babies through a supplement regiment. You can read about it here: http://www.centerforhumanreprod.com/dhea.html
I still have my notes and list of what I took 3 years ago (when I was almost 41). If you would like me to mail them to you, just send me a message. :)
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-Pep
Google vitex or fertilaid