trying for a baby

[jennyb1989]

I have a little boy who's really 4, and me and my boyfriend have been trying for another baby, but im not sure what to do, im 13 days late for my period and the test said i was negative, but i still have not come on, cause when i had my son i had no pregnancy signs at all, i was nearly 3 months when i found out. any advice, thank you.

[jennyb1989]

hi thank you for the advice, i will have to try it, and congratulations.  

[EmsMom07]

First off it can take a healthy couple up to 18 months to conceive, second some women will not experience any symptoms or signs of pregnancy until they are over 8 weeks pregnant, you could go to your Dr and have them do blood work to confirm if your pregnant or not, since a blood test would show a pregnancy earli8er than a home pregnancy test, also there are many things that you can do to TTC (Try To Conceive) for instance you can chart your basal body temp at the same time each day to detect when you will ovulate, check your CM (Cervical Mucus), use OPK's (Ovulation Predictor Test) they also tell you when you ovulate, if you don't want to spend a lot of money on them you can always buy the tests at the dollar store. Also after I had my IUD removed in July 2009 I tried almost everything imaginable, such as keeping my legs up for 30min after baby dancing to make sure that no sperm got out, stayed on the bottom, since I read that if the women's on top more sperm will come out, etc. But after 6 1/2 months of trying and no luck I read about a product called pre-seed found at babyhopes.com, it's suppose to be the only lubricant safe for sperm, and it also helps get the sperm where it needs to go, I thought I might as well get it since I had nothing else to lose, and I was going on 7 months of TTC. So that month I used my OPK's and got a positive one on January 6th, 2010, my husband and I baby danced late that night using the pre-seed, and then early morning of the 7th. I finally got my BFP (Big Fat Positive) on January 19th, 2010, I am now 31 weeks and 2 days pregnant with a healthy baby boy =0) So I recommend this product to EVERYONE, since I really think that this is what gave me my BFP! Well I hope this helps, and good luck!

[butterflybabies]

Hi, you should go to the doctor and get a blood test done to check for pregnancy, and then if you are not preggo you can tell the doc and they can help you get your period going..Good Luck!