Hi, I enjoyed your post so much I had to read it 3 times. You may not know it? But you gave me courage to fight the fight. You also are very strong, and caring. I like that in people. I, too have a comic side to me. I also have another diagnosis in which people do not want to understand, and are afraid of me. So, my friend. Please invite me to be your friend. I also write Christian Childrens' Stories. I write poetry. I also need a friend to just be there when times are tough. I live alone now, as my ex husband of 30 yrs. found himself a younger filly. Too bad she does not know he is abusive. I get so lonely at times I just cry.
Please, add me to your friends list.
Thanks again, for this wonderful post!
Lahayle
My family doesn't even try to understand, they just think it's ONE MORE aliment of Lexi...
But I get it a lot at work: What is that? Well my pre-med brain pulls out a very complicated explanation of what it is. I've started saying to my co-workers that ask, "It's one of those sneaky conditions, like a headache, you don't have the pain all the time, sometimes you know it's coming because you 'caused' it (much like a dehydration headache) other times you wake up and it hits you like a tons of bricks (like a headache you get when you're sick). Comparing it to something that everyone can have makes it more easily understandable.
I have to thank you for posting this, too. I had to send a copy to my friend who suffers from MCS. I made sure to mention the copyright. She said that she is thinking of printing it out and giving it to some people she knows in hopes that these people will get more insight and treat her with more understanding and patience. More than likely she, too, is dealing with CFS/FMS, since MCS goes with the territory. But, you know how hard it is to get doctors to actually work with us, so we can get the treatments we actually need and deserve.
You all are more than welcome. I really think that this letter helped me to explain better than I could have on my own. I was happy when I found it on the net, and sent an email to the author and thanked him for it. Time to pull the overs back over my head. Take care.
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Angel
Well said! I printed it so I can take it to a mediation at my attorney's office. My husband read it and his response was "This pretty well hits it on the head".
Much thanks. By the way......I've been in a stooper for some time now, what did Dr. Oz have to say this time?
I've just read the most accurate thing that I could ever have wrote--only I didn't! Thanks for putting that on here. I hate to moan to my family, it's not their fault, after all, and will probably not even show them this, but the more I read on here, the better I feel mentally, I now know, when I have the thoughts, that no-one could possibly live with this endless pain, I have, lot's of others are living with it, and I feel less useless, and less alone. Thankyou.x.
Right on ! I think that it would be a great way (and healthy) to spend our energy doing things like that. And you never know what may happen as a result... anything is possible in my book.
Hugs,
~PlateletGal
Thanks for sharing this, I sent a copy to all my friends and family members..maybe they will start to understand a little more...think...lol
That is definitely something to think about, And then maybe send it all to Dr. Oz and see if we hear back from him.
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Angel
You know one of these days I think I'm going to share my story... pictures and all. I think that if we all did this in this forum on a set date, then it would send a pretty powerful message... and one that cannot be ignored.
You are very welcome. I thought that you all would enjoy having it. The original author doesn't mind it being used as long as his copyright is used also. I keep a private journal, my husband hasn't even read it, and I add to it everyday. My good days and all the bad days. It helps. Take care.
gentle hugs
Angel
Thank you for this. I'd never seen it, but had often thought of writing about what my experience of CFS has been like. This gives me some ideas for ways of presenting certain aspects, and for that, I'm very grateful, both to you and the original author.
That's a wonderful idea. I forwarded it to my loved ones as well.
Hope the same for your weekend Angel. Take care.
I read this during the first month of my diagnosis, and sent it to all of my kids. I think this helped me to explain to them what was happening to me. I read it on days that I really need understanding ( like today ) and then I curl up and let the pain move on in.
I hope you all have as pain free weekend as you can.
gentle hugs
Angel
I've seen this before and it is "always" a great read. Thank you for sharing it with everyone. Love it!
I hear that. Sometimes I think they need it stuck in their faces to just " Get it!!"
Thank you for sharing, Kitt !
I see it this way... these ignorant people cannot destroy my SPIRIT.
hello kid ...wow .. what a fantastic letter it sums up every person on this site{personel point of view} i,m gonna copy it and send it to members of my family,,maybe they will have a better understanding if how i and others will feel , tc. be as pain free as poss