I get the sense that you are a strong woman, and that your boyfriend has been as strong for you through his commitment to help you parent your first child. I think you need to hold your ground about keeping this second baby, but do it with an understanding that this second unexpected pregnancy has him worried about how you can move ahead together. Encourage him, and be supportive of him emotionally. Help him in listening to his fears. He needs time. I would love to talk you through some of these issues, and be a support through this time.
Hello yes he has tried his best to cope with the situation but he just keeps trying to avoid the subject and I think I might be having a miscarriage I feel very sick and I keep camping up I took two more tests but they're coming out negative and I've been having pink stingy mucus come out I told him I need to go to the Dr but they won't see me till I'm 8 weeks and I brought up urgent care but he ignores me