In my experience it can disappear and remain dormant for minutes, weeks, and in my case years. It can come on terribly painful and then go away very fast. For me, if I eat something high in fat content I am more likely to have an attack versus a low fat item. But I've been really lucky and symptom free no matter what I eat for a few years now and I, too, have tons of stones and history of major gallbladder "attacks" which looking back were ER worthy.