My sister in law had a miscariage two weeks before Christmas. It would have been my brothers first child. It was a rough year since my mother died in my arms July 19th. The Doctors told my sister in law that she would have to wait at least 3-4 months, before trying again. The good news is that she is 2 months pregnant and we pray that the little peanut will hang in there. I can't tell you the last time our family held a baby. I'm engaged, but have lots of nieces and nephews...college age with the exception of the youngest "Anthony" who is 10 yrs. old.
Take care of yourself and lots of prayers....you are in my thoughts and prayers and just be there for your fiance. There is nothing like going through a death in the family.
Judy
thanku so much for your kind words. went to dr today and they are calling it a possible miscariage so they dont know whats going on. ***** though.
I'm so very sorry for all your losses. Please make sure that you give your body time to heal from a miscarriage, before getting pregant again. Discuss this with your doctor, who is the best person to help you pin point what is going on with you body and why you are having difficulty. As for your fiance, everyone grieves differently, so give him space to sort out his feelings. Just be there for him when he needs you. This too shall pass, but death is raw and there is no way around it...you will both experience the grief process, so be patient and compassionate with each other...one day at a time.
Judy