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About my sex

Hi, I am married for three years but the unbelievable  true is that we have not done our sexual relation till now. We had a love marriage. I am the female person. I always feel afraid about the whole matter. All time I said not now next time next time. After 3 years our attraction is growing less and I am mentally so dipprased for the whole matter. Its about to time to take a baby. But waht to do now to overcome this fear????
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5595906 tn?1370579645
kick off your fear and enjoy your sex. Just try it once, you will be comfortable with your husband, Take your time to be comfortable with your husband and do not give priority to your fear.
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603463 tn?1220626855
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Hi!
If you were my patient, I would advise you that you are not alone in your fears, and many marriages take years to consumate.  I would refer you to a counselor and develop a team of providers who could work closely with you and your husband to help work through your issues.  Many women who are afraid have a history of trauma or abuse in their past.  Others are just very anxious. There are also many ways to become pregnant--such as intrauterine insemination (IUI) if that turns out the be the best answer for you.
Get help first from a trusted doctor such as an ob/gyn.  Often a female doctor can be easier to approach.
Good luck!
Dr B
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The baby is the best thing that cumz in a couple z life an 3 yearz iz long u should just relax an enjoy your sex life
I had my 1st baby after 8 years of trying nw i have 2 adorable angels an 3rd on the way
I used to be sad wen i see pregy women or small baby's coz I waz same us u
So gud luck
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