I have been experiencing hot flashes since my early 30's well after I had my son @ 35 (our 1st) I was still having problems w/ bad PMS and night & hot flashes. I went Tues for my annual I explained to my dr that I stop taking my bc on my last cyle on 10/3 so I could be tested for menapause, she said I was to young. I explained that it was like I was having PMS syptoms-cramps, bloating, moody, and The week before even after a week after my period I was feeling Lower abdominal bloating, and my insides felt sore like a ache or raw. I just wish I knew why I felt this way.my bloating is better today and my insides don't ache as much. I am having a bowel movement everyday not a "normal" for me i contribute that to PMS.....Doctor could you help me and at least explain some of these things going on. I would be very very grateful.......THANK YOU