Thank you Dr. B... i will give that a try and see how it goes.
Sory, Pebee. I posted in the wrong place by mistake, being the first time I use this website. I wish yoy the best
I.m postmenopausal and hadn't had a BF for 4 years. I never before had pain during sex, but with my new BF I had it. There was some bleeding and serious discomfort for several days. Next time I'll follow the advise you gave to Pebee, but my question is: I had a partial hysterectomy some 10 years ago. Is the cervix still there and could the pain-bleeding come from there?
Hi!
Your complaints are common and sometimes difficult to solve. A few things to try:
Plenty of foreplay to be certain that you are fully aroused,
A lubricant such as Astroglide
The "female dominant" or woman on top position -- so you can control how rapidly and
deeply he penetrates.
Hope this helps!
Dr B