Great news Sean, thanks. I feel better.
I promise i won't be one of these serial offenders but please could i ask one last question if I may...
I think there was an instant (racking my brain which i know i shouldn't do) when she kinda pushed her vagina into my face and i may have had a cheeky little lick or two before she realised what i was up to and backed away. Now i'm assuming this hold not risk? Would i be right in saying this.
Then i'm going away - I promise!!!
You will see also see i posted my first email on the "prevention" forum because I thought maybe this was the wrong one - apology for that!
Take it easy
R
Good Morning Rick,
sorry for the delay but its bank holiday Monday here in the UK - my apologies for not getting to you sooner.
You have asked:-
1. Is there any worry of the vaginal fluids / blood from her vagina being passed to my mouth from my finger, coming into contact with my ulcer / bleeding gums when I licked the finger and passing on the HIV virus?
No, none at all. I can see where this worry comes from but as far as we know, there are no transmissions this way to date. This coupled with the fact that HIV is very fragile indeed and does not survive out of optimal conditions for long indicates that you will be safe. I do not believe there is a risk there.
2. Does the ulcer / bleeding gums increase the chances
No - for much the same reasons as above.
3. Could the small tears near my finger nails give me a chance of being the first person in history to become infected by fingering considering there was some blood around! (I think i know the answer to this one)
Yessir, you know the answer to this one - no - emphatically not in my opinion!
4. Also I forgot - there was a brief French kiss. If she had some blood in her mouth form licking her own fingers could there be a possibilty of being infected this way.
No Rick - you're torturing yourself - relax and stop beating yourself up so much.
I am sure you are fine.
kind regards, Sean