Good Morning everybody - thanks for the original post and the nice reassuring and accurate help from other contributors.
I agree that your risk is low. Firstly you started with a condom and although something happened to it, it was probably in place for a while at least and will have protected you during that interval. I think from the statements made by the lady concerned that there is little risk that she was HIV positive in the first place.
On average, a single penetrative episode will result in a risk of around 1 in 1000 to 1 in 1200. There are things that will alter that and you can see my recent blog on this site on this.
So, unlikely you have HIV.
If you were to be HIV positive and had gone beyond the first three to four months or so then your viral load -- the amount of virus in your blood stream will have declined. I think the likelhood IF you were HIV positive is unlikely.
You both need to reassess this now and get some expert tests done for STD's and also HIV. These tests will be certain at this interval.
best regards, Sean
chnaces very slim.
yes you could have gotten the warts from her because those can be spread from intact skin.
chances of contracting hiv from u in this case ur wife is low.
just get tested to allay your fears.
Your HIV risk is very small here. Your risk is small, and it is even less for your wife.
Get the tests to make sure though. Good luck.
I am very gratefull for all your comments and advice. It gives us much more to get the tests done.
We thank you.
But i think it is very difficult for some one to get warts after one year.