I am a 24 year old guy who went to Hong Kong to get a visa. My friend took me to a sex sauna and I had sex with a Chinese prostitute. She gave me oral sex and I gave her vaginal sex. We used the same condom for both acts. The condom didn't break.
Then, later that night, I went to a girl bar with Thai bar girls. I was fingering one girl, but we didn't have any kind of sex. I'm worried that my finger may have been cut (I'm not sure) and that a couple minutes later I may have touched my face, which had one actively-healing pimple. I'm hoping HIV dies once it touches air, so I don't need to worry about being infected through my pimple.
Around two weeks later on March 30th or 31st, I started getting a minor headache on the left side of my head, and I started experiencing fatigue and lethargy consistently for about the last 8-9 days and have not been able to concentrate on anything. I also had some muscle soreness in my right leg and arms, but I had no idea why. I also had these two minor rashes on my abdomen area that disappeared within one day, but the muslce soreness and rashes may be related to the fact that I went to the beach and swam in the ocean.
I'm worried that I'm experiencing the symptoms of ARS. Should I be worried? I don't want to get tested for HIV yet because it has barely been one month since I had sexual intercourse, and moreoever I live in Taiwan where the country deports foreigners who test positive for HIV. I really regret doing anything sexual with prostitutes and bar girls. I really do. Dammit, I wish I could go back and avoid all of this anxiety. I have A LOT of anxiety right now. Moreover, it's rare that I get sick. I did catch the flu around the same time last year and felt similar symptoms, but I still rarely get sick. I've been rather strong immunity-wise most of my life.
So should I be worried and prepare for the worst? Did I contract HIV? What do I do? Should I get tested and risk deportation??