I'm an HIV negative man and have just started a relationship with someone who is HIV positive. He's been on anti-retrovirals for the past 10 years and his HIV load count is undetectable.
I've been told by a friend who is HIV positive that the risks of transmission of HIV is negligible when someone's load count is undetectable.
Can you let me know if this is true?
I'm generally the active partner and would like to stop using condoms when we have anal sex.
Having searched the internet, it seems very difficult to get a straightforward answer to this question.