Welcome to the forum. I'll try to help.
First, you indeed had no HIV exposure worth worrying about. Your partner is sure he doesn't have it -- and few people lie about HIV status when asked directly. And even if he really was infected, neither the blood exposure from his nosebleed nor the oral sex carried any appreciable risk. (Scan any several threads at random for many discussions of the low risk, maybe zero, associated with oral sex.)
So I agree with your doctor: I also would not have prescribed PEP. But aparently you found some other doctor or clinic who had a different judgnebt; or perhaps you talked them into it.
ARS never causes a rash as the only symptom. If you had ARS you also would have had substantial fever, sore throat, and perhaps enlarged/inflamed lymph nodes. Further, you have apparently seen an HIV specialist (is this yet a different doc, i.e. the third you have sesen??) who undoubtedly is very experienced. No distant online expert can compete with driect examination by an expert. Since that person believes you have an allergic reaction to one of the PEP drugs, that also is my best guess.
As I said, my own view is that you shouldn't have been treated; in fact, I wouldn't have even seen a need for to be tested for HIV on the basis of the exposures decribed. At this point, however, my advice is that you pick one doctor and stick with that person until all this is resolved. Logically, that would be the doctor or clinic who prescribed the PEP. Follow his or her advice about whether to continue PEP and whether or when to have follow-up HIV tests.
Best regards-- HHH, MD
Thank you very much doctor. I am an extremely anxious person and have been freaking out. I kept thinking that maybe an hr after the nosebleed was not enough but you do not see an exposure risk. I am glad that you and my MD agree. It has actually only been once doctor but his practice is very HIV focused and I wanted to point that out. Thank you very much. My MD even said that a more "rational" person wouldnt have even gone to the doctor in the first place. Again, thank you.
Oh and I shoulve mentioned that there was a patch of somehwat raw skin on my penis from jerking it too hard but was not actively bleeding, more rug burn ish and I had this when he performed oral sex...not sure if that changes your opinion at all?
Hi Doctor -
One more thing that I am not sure if it changes your opinion. But I have tested positive for HSV2 antibodies years ago and have never had an outbreak but would this make the above oral more risky? Or is this still a non-issue witrh respect to my exposure. Just thought of this and as an anxious pewrson, I had to ask. Thanks!
It's a non-issue. HSV-2 increases the risk of HSV-2 if exposed, but the exposure has to be genital and maybe anal. And first you have to be exposed -- and as noted above, you were not.
That will wind up this thread. Don't overhink this: almost any scenario you might think up is not likely to make any difference.
Great thank you doctor. And just for my own knowledge, when you say "exposure has to be genital and maybe anal', you mean through vaginal or anal sex, excluding oral sex?
Your genital or anal area has to be exposed.
Stop overthinking the situation. Accept the reasoned reassurance you have had and ignore any other "what if" scenarios that come to mind. There is no information you can add about this event that would change my opinion or advice. So that ends this thread.
Hi doctor- a completely unrelated question: is it ok to switch pep regimens midway if side effects are bad? Does switching make the pep less effective?
I don't know. Probably not. But this obviously is a question for the doctor who prescribed it, who almost certainly knows more about the details of PEP than we do here.
That's definitely all for this thread.