Here is my situation of 12 days ago,
I went to a strip club and went to the "VIP" section. Once there the girl (African American) started to give me a rough lapdance. After the lapdance the girl asked "how far" she could go with me and offered "safe sex" (handjob, rubbing her breasts on my penis, etc.) I declined. Her chest was exposed and she would pull her bottoms down to show me her butt, but I didn't even see her vagina or any spot near it. She never completely took her clothes off. However during the dance, she pulled my penis out of my shorts, and covered it with my shirt. I remember putting my penis in my pants a few moments later. She didn't grab it again, because I told. her that I didn't want to perform any sexual acts. As I was anxious that she touched my penis with her hands, when we went downstairs I even inspected her hands which seemed "dry" but not bloody or anything like that.
When I went into the parking lot to leave, the thought came across if I had penetrated her. I do not think I did, but I started to doubt myself. Surely if I had penetrated her she or I would have noticed, but I am not sure and am leaning towards me not penetrating her seeing as how my penis was exposed for only a few moments. Since then I have had a few questionable symptoms.
Are canker sores related to initial infection? I have had two in the past 12 days separately.
I have been having these odd aches across my body, especially in my hands and fingers. Is this sort of joint or muscle pain common in infection?
I have also had a "heavy head" a few times in the past 12 days. Any relation?
I have also had random pains throughout my body, that throb at times. Any relation?
I have had a HIV anxiety attacks before (twice) and have always been very paranoid. I have been tested numerous times in the past year and they have all been negative. Please help!