Last thursday night, 20th March, early 21st March am, after many rounds of drinks, my friends and I went for a massage in Beijing. I had her on top of me, I was protected by the condom and after a few thrusts, I ejaculated. There is no reason or experience for me to believe that the condom was not on me that time. Even after I went limp, she thrusted for a couple more time, not sure how many times, but maybe less than 1 minutes and when I finally pulled her away ( she was on top still), I saw that the condom was not on my penis, but rather hanging off from her vagina (I think I remember It was hanging). I did see was that the semen was inside the condom she pulled off from her vagina. I dont think so there was a condom break, cannot say it for sure, as I have never experienced comdom break before.My worry is when my penis went limp, I have no idea when and how the condom came off my penis and was clung on to her vagina, I have no idea if she has HIV, I have read that overall HIV infection rate is 0.05% of population in CHina, presumably more in CSW?, but again this was Beijing and not rural China. I really need your opinion, pov ( honest and straight) if you think
1. this episode is high risk ( I think it is), 2. In the sexual position I was, i.e limp penis after ejaculation when condom was on while ejaculating, but I stayed on and when I pulled her away, the condom was not on my penis but hanging from her vagina, is it possible for transmission of fluids to possibly contract HIV? 3. Would you recommend testing for this scenario? 4. I have developed a slight redness in my right eye since yesterday, does this count as any symptom I should be worried of?5. What are my chances of exposure to HIV for this episode?
Please advice , please suggest anything you wish I must think/do. For what its worth, she did look clean and healthy ( I know this does not mean a lot), but anyone with acute HIV infection could have have symptoms right? she didnt see feverish, no rash etc, quite healthy.