You are 100% clear, which has been obvious for some time now. Do your best to move on.
I thank you for the response.
You hit the nail on the head with the anxiety observation.
In my defense though, I simply CANNOT afford to assume I am 100% clear of HIV until I am actually 100% clear of HIV.
I am married, and have three young children, and am fearful of infecting my wife... Especially since I am running out of excuses to avoid intimacy.
If there is ANY chance I am infected (even the smallest), I feel I need to be "out in front of it" and take steps to protect my family.
(Which I should have done by not getting into this situation in the first place)
I know this service is not designed to be an anxiety treatment site. I, like most that come here I suppose, find reassurance in your consistent expertise - and when we over analyze a statement like the one in question, it allows for the doubt and fear to resurface.
I thank you for your time, and your explanation.
This is a duplicative, unnecessary question. The statement you cite is only pertinent to early HIV testing, i.e. before ~6 weeks after exposure. After 6-8 weeks there is no difference in reliability between the oral fluids tests and other tests for HIV. I agree 100% with the advice you had form Dr. Hook.
I would advise you to accept his advice and stop searching either this forum or the web. Anxious people tend to be drawn selectively to information that inflames their fears and to not focus on the reassuring parts. This appears to apply to you and I suggest you stop.
HHH, MD