Dear Doctor,
I have a few questions for you involving two separate encounters, subsequent testing and information I have been given by an employee at a testing center.
Firstly, in January of 2009 I had what I remember to be an unprotected sexual encounter with a heterosexual American male in the Army. Our condom broke. He claimed to be clear of all STDs.
In January of 2010 I had 2 separate sexual encounters with a heterosexual American male in Medical School who I had dated briefly. He also claims to be negative on all counts when it comes to STDs.
I have recently found myself having a bout of hysteria about the risk I put myself in for HIV. I was tested with a rapid HIV test in May of '09 (negative), November of '09 (Negative), May of '10 (negative once again) and October of 2010 (2 weeks ago - Negative). I have always tested 2x a year.
This past time, I was told that 'HIV' not AIDS could lay 'dormant' (I do know that it could take years for HIV to turn into overt AIDS) and that NO HIV test could 'ever' be 100% accurate. Which lead to me wonder - how can I ever be 100% sure I don't have it? Which is why I turn to the expert.
I know that rapid HIV tests look for HIV antibodies and that is why there is some fear about people getting 'false negative' results. I waited out my window period as indicated by the CDC, but now I am scared that somehow - after almost 2 years (Mr. 2009 is the main worry I have) HIV could suddenly become an issue for me.
If you could, please let me know if I need to be tested again, and if I can truly be certain I am 100% HIV negative. I am currently in a long term relationship and have been since March. I need to know I will not give anything to my boyfriend. Also, can you please answer for me why people say HIV can lay dormant? This is not true, is it?
I greatly appreciate all of the advice and information you give,
Thank you so very much for (hopefully) putting my fears and concerns at bay.