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NEED HONEST ANSWERS AND SUGGESTIONS PLEASE

Doc, Im white male 21 and stupidly had intoxicated unprotected vaginal with a girl I later found out has been with 20 guys from her. it was about 25-40 minutes and I stopped!  3 wks later woke up with red rash on head of my penis was there for almost 2 mths. it was red bumps. a week later I got sick(4wks after). white spots on my tonsils,pink eye, mild fever off and on, cough, swollen glands and lymph nodes in my neck, and one behind my ear and diarrah. also I started having pain in testies and after getting off. I had a negitive strep and mono spot test, but too ammox just in case. it went away in about 3 days,but have had a sore throat for 3 months and swollen tonsils and glands and SOB or at least pressure in chest area that comes and goes. also I get these red blood spots on the inside of my cheeks. they will be there for a few days then there gone and come back. seem to always be gone when I go to docs. tests are as follows:
8wks negitive HIV rapid
neg chalymdia,Gon, trich
9weeks neg HIV
10 wks neg HIV,HEPB,shyphilis,normal CBC
11 wks undetec. Viral load
14 wks neg HIV
15 wks neg HIV.
Docs tell me I need to retest at 6 months
Questions:
1) would the ammox I took before the chalymdia,Gon, Trich test killed it if it was there, which would have made me test negitive. it was urinalysis doc thought I had it bc of pain after ejac and in testies.

2)what could cause the red blood spots inside cheeks that come and go
3) could I still be going through seroconversion, should I be concerend with HEP C

4 does HIV casue a rash on head of penis,could it?
5)is there still a chance this might be HIV, please be honest, ARS?

6) would a rapid mono test pick up EBV? also if that was the cause woldnt my current GF have it
7) my current GF/fiance has been tested and negitive when is the point we can go back to having unprotected sex ? she is on BC
what would you look for ?
please elaberate as much as you can and please be honest .thank you ive read CDC stats
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300980 tn?1194929400
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This is the last time I will say it.  You do not have HIV.  This post is now over.  EWH
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300980 tn?1194929400
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This is the last time I will say it.  You do not have HIV.  This post is now over.  EWH
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all by the way I am from Ohio and the HIV test I have taken are not the DUO test I Have heard about. does that make a difference? so there is not way I have HIV
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so there is no way I have HIV?
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300980 tn?1194929400
MEDICAL PROFESSIONAL
My guess is the reason that your doctor hasn't done much with this is becasue he/she is not worried.  If you feel good about your doctor, ask him/her and then believe the answer. If not, get a second opinion and ask the question directly.  Do not allow this to feel your anxiety.  EWH
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Doctor Hook thank you for your fast response, I will try and put this behind me it is hard becasue I have one Doctor telling me I need to be tested at 6 months. also I am concerned becasue I have two pea sized lymph nodes on both sides of my neck and one behind my right ear that has been there for 3 months now. at first I was haveing some aching in my neck but for the last 2 months they have been painless. i tell and show this to my doctor but get nowhere and no answer. also I still get a few white spots on my tonsils and the back of my throat has been red and inflammed for 3 months as well. could you please comment on the pea sized lymph nodes as well as the other things that I have discussed above.

thank you very much for your time I really hope you are right about what you told me above . nthank you once again!
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300980 tn?1194929400
MEDICAL PROFESSIONAL
There  is no way you are infected.  You need to put these concerns behind you.  Specific answers to numbered questions:

1.  Amoxicillin might have killed the gonorrhea but not trich or chlamydia.  Killed or not, a test within a few days of taking the amoxicillin could still be positive.  Believe the tests. You do not (and did not) have these STDs.
2.  Red spots. Don't know.  They need to be looked at.  See you health care provider.  They have nothing to do with HIV or STD.
3.  No way, no concern for Hep C.  Virtually never transmitted sexually
4.  You need an exam.  This is not HIV/.
5.  No way at all.  This is not ARS
6.  The mono test would pick up EBV
7.  Unprotected sex is OK

Once again to summarize.  You do not have HIV other STDs and have nothing to worry about.  AS for your symptoms, I would suggest you see your health care professional and get his/her assistance in sorting them out.  EWH
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You're fine. For HIV, less than 1% of positives show up AFTER three months in antibody tests. RNA ("Viral load) tests would show up positive in two weeks. So you're in the clear on all timelines for HIV. Here's research:

Seattle Health Dept: Nearly everyone who is infected with HIV (99%) will have antibodies detected by 3 months after infection.
Source: http://www.metrokc.gov/health/apu/infograms/hivantibody0903.htm

CDC: "Another type of test is an RNA test, which detects the HIV virus directly. The time between HIV infection and RNA detection is 9-11 days. These tests, which are more costly and used less often than antibody tests, are used in some parts of the United States."
Source: http://www.hivtest.org/subindex.cfm?FuseAction=FAQ
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255761 tn?1204166672
You had how many negatives and you are still worried .
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