. Do you have anything to say regarding the fact that my partners also got symptoms?
This does not mean that you are transmitting HIV back and forth. It may well be coincidence or some other community acquired infection (like the flu) or merely coincidence. There is little reason to be concerned about HIV.
2. Neuropathy? Is it common in early HIV?
No.
EWH
Thank you very much for answering so quickly and thouroughly. I have only two more questions:
1. Do you have anything to say regarding the fact that my partners also got symptoms?
2. Neuropathy? Is it common in early HIV?
These will be my last questions.
Take care, doc!
Welcome to our Forum. I'll be pleased to comment. The exposure you describe was very low risk for HIV and your symptoms both a few weeks after the exposure and more recently are non-specific and do not suggest HIV.
Few heterosexual women in Sweden have HIV and even in the very unlikely situation that your partner had HIV, the risk for infection is only 1 infection for every 1000-2000 acts of intercourse. Thus your statistical risk for HIV is very, very low.
The symptoms you describe several weeks after the exposure are also not consistent with the symptoms of recently acquired HIV- the rash tends to be much more generalized, not localized as you describe and is typically accompanied by high fever, sore throat, muscle and joint aches. Thus I am confident that the symptoms you describe are due to something other than HIV.
As for your recent symptoms, these too are non-specific. Peripheral neuropathy is best detected during a careful examination by a clinician. If indeed you have a neuropathy, it could be due to many different things, including nutritional deficiency.
The right thing for you to do is to get tested as you plan to do. There is no need to do so emergently and there will be harm to you by delaying testing until you return home from your travels. Most importantly however, when you are tested and the results are negative as I anticipate they will be, please believe them.
In the future, I suggest you use condoms for sexual encounters with new partners.
I hope my comments are helpful. EWH