I have been worried about this for quite some time. I am 30, hetero male. I have not had an HIV since 2004- it was negative then but since then I have had sex with four women. None of the women were sex workers but like me, they did probably have casual sex. In each instance, I used condoms and cannot recall a break. About one year after the first encounter, around 2005, I got mild Seborrheic Dermatitis. I have had it on the scalp and a little bit around the nose for years, and it is controlled by head and shoulders. I think it may have even come in the armpit a couple of times. The dermatologist told me not to worry but also I have had a few bouts of jock itch over the years too if I ever wear the same underwear more than a day or two. Those are my only symptoms which could point to HIV. I have not done any illegal drugs, no needles, or anything else.
Could you evaluate my risk? I'm with a serious girlfriend now in a monogomous relationship and I'd like to stop using condoms. But i'm afraid to do this in the event I could be infected with something. All other STD tests were negative but I am afraid to do the HIV test which I haven't done in some time.
Could you quantify my risk?
Thanks for your help,