Welcome to the forum.
This is among the most common questions we get on this forum -- HIV risk related to semi-sexual exposures in massage parlors, often involving "happen endings". So my reply is brief -- you can scan the forum (pick any 10 threads at random) for lots of other discussions.
HIV is not transmitted by hand-gential contact or fingering. Ever. Even if body fluids (e.g. vaginal fluids) are used as lubrication. Without intercourse -- penile penetration-- there is no risk of HIV. The same is pretty much true for other STDs as well.
Your symptoms (below) have nothing to do with HIV or STDs. I'm pretty sure your anxieties are just making you notice minor sensations that you otherwise would ignore or not even feel.
You do not need testing for HIV or any other STD and can safely have unprotected sex with your wife.
I hope this has helped. Best wishes-- HHH, MD
I forgot to mention that i feel a little irritation on the shaft of my penis and a little of a soar throat. This experience wast exactly 7 days ago. Can i have unprotected sex with my wife????
Thanks for the answer, I just felt bad because this is a therapy place I frequent with my wife and never expect to have this ending. What are the chances of a mass-us in nyc could have HIV? and my second question, if she had could be any risk if she had any cut in her hands?
"What are the chances of a mass-us in nyc could have HIV?" It doesn't matter. Even if she had HIV, you were not at risk. (Probably under 1 chance in a thousand, though.)
"Cut on hand…": Still no risk.
Don't overthink it. Nobody in the world ever caught HIV from an event like this. Ignore any and all additional "what if" or "is it possible" questions that come to mind. This was no more risk than it would have been if you had shaken hands with an HIV infected person or been served by an HIV infected waiter, which has happened from time to time (without being aware of it).
Thanks for the reassurance
Doctor one last question, even if I ejaculated in her hand near my open tip, still no risk for STD?
OK, I give up. What exactly was not clear in "Ignore any and all additional 'what if' or 'is it possible' questions that come to mind."
I'm not going to say it again. Stop posting such questions; one more and the entire thread will be deleted. Accept the reassurance I have tried to give you and move on with your life.
Thanks doctor, sometimes is hard to understand the true when you are afraid