Thank you for taking the time to answer my questions. I am in a very hopeless state of mind right now. 5 weeks ago I participated in oral cunninglings with a high risk CSW. The CSW was an african american female from a low income urban area. I am a 22 year old male college student. During the encounter I French kissed her for a total of 20 seconds during which a lot of saliva was exchanged. She also gave me a quick "bj" which lasted 20 seconds. I did not "cum" during this because I had been drinking. I also sucked on her nipples for 30 seconds during which she asked if I liked her "milk". She also told me she had a kid so it is possible she was breast feeding at the time. I did not taste any milk, but I was drunk. At 4 weeks and 5 days (thursday 10/21) I woke up in the morning with a sore throat. As the day progressed I developed a fever, swollen neck lymph nodes, achy body all over, and for the past two nights I've had night sweats. I have not had diahhrea, rash, loss of appetite, chills, or tiredness. I feel better today (2 days later) but the fever is still lingering and I can tell I will have another fever tonight with night sweats. I tend to get sinus infections quite often but this is not a sinus infection. I never get this kind of sick and the fact that its occurring within the ARS time period means it is not a coincidence, but HIV.
1) What are my chances of getting HIV through the French kissing, nipple sucking, and the breif bj?
3) What other STDs can I get from this encounter?
4) If saliva is not contagious, how is it possible to get HIV from recieving a bj from a woman when bjs also involve saliva?
5)What is your personal evaluation of my symptoms? Do you think I need testing or can I move on with my life? I am trying to face this head on so could you please be as blunt as possible.