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Vaginal Sex with HIV negative test

Hello doctor.
Here i am back in this forum.
I have a very good friend in Guatemala ( She is Colombian Scort) and one night with a lot of alcholl we made sex whitout proteccion.
Here are de Facts:
The sex was on sept 11 ( times that night, but really brief, 5 minutes per act)
She has a Hiv Negative test 3 months agos.
She has another Negative test on August 20 (2012) 31 days befores our crazy Night
And i ask her to repeat the test on sept 13 (2012) 2 days after our crazy night with a Negative results.

Now im frikin out, she repeat me all day that she s clean and she always protect her self but y dont really beleive thar becasuse what happend with me. I know she love me and maybe thats the reason she ask me to have sex with no protection.

So its easy my question, do yo recommend me to take a test 8 weeks from now, or i am over reacting.
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239123 tn?1267647614
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Is it "imposible that she was in a window period?" If she had not had sex with other partners since August 20, then yes, it is impossible.  Even if she did have sex with someone else, the chance she was in the window period is less than the risk you'll be hit by lightning.

That's the end of this thread.  Try to move on.  I will delete any further questions about it.
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Doc i love you statdistic, your oddss, just please for my final peace of mine,
I promise this is my last question about these.

Your realistic odds compare numbers and facts

The sex was on sept 11 ( 3 times that night, but really brief, 5 minutes per act)
She has a Hiv Negative test 3 months agos.
She has another Negative test on August 20 (2012) 31 days befores our crazy Night
And i ask her to repeat the test on sept 13 (2012) 2 days after our crazy night with a Negative results

Do you think its imposible that she was in a window period?  what happend if she is in that period? my chances are still goods?
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239123 tn?1267647614
MEDICAL PROFESSIONAL
"Can I move and have sex normal with my wife?"

Of course.  You shouldn't have to ask; the answer is obvious from my other replies.

"i feel deppresed".

That feeling probably isn't going to go away on its own.  You should visit your doctor, tell him or her you are depressed (and the apparent reasons), then accept his her advice is professional counseling is recommended.  
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Can I move and have sex normal with my wife.
i feel deppresed
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239123 tn?1267647614
MEDICAL PROFESSIONAL
One in many million. Forget it.  Suck it up and move on.
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Doc thanks for your answer.
I just Want to Know medical point of view

WORST CASE Scenario

what are the odds of the realistic chance she is in a window period
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239123 tn?1267647614
MEDICAL PROFESSIONAL
Welcome back.

Your friend would not lie; even without a test, you could be confident she doesn't have HIV.  Her negative test 2 days after your sexual exposure proves it.  There is simply no realistic chance she is in a window period.

Therefore, you definitely are overreacting.  On the basis of this exposure, you definitely do not need testing yourself. But of course you are free to do it if you remain irrationally worried about it.

Regards--  HHH, MD

HHH, MD
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