Dear Dr. i am a 42 years old male, i have been sexually active for the past 3 months -always protected sex except for oral sex-
4 days ago and -unfortunately- i had a sexual exposure with a CSW in Abu Dhabi, United Arab Emirates.
while performing anal sex on her -insertive- the condom broke, it was about 2-4 minutes before i found out, no ejaculation happened and i had no open sores on my penis or any other cuts.
i am of a good general health, smoker and have never been diagnosed with any std or any serious disease.
right now i am freaking out because of the hazardous of HIV that i have put myself in.
i have asked her if this was the first time for her to have a condom failure indecent and she answered yes, she even had an HIV blood test for residency visa 7 months ago and she already has her visa stamped (which means she was a negative at the time) ,my questions are as follows.
1- i know that anal sex is considered a high risk action, is there any % that can measure that risk ? i mean am i at 50% for example or is it definite that i will get infected if she really has HIV ? i have read somewhere on the internet that the the risk of transmission to the insertive partner from a single encounter of unprotected anal sex is 0.065%, meaning that 99.935% do not get HIV, is that true ?
2- i am thinking of getting a PCR test to check myself, how long should i wait before getting tested (PCR) and how accurate and reliable is that test ?
3- Do you recommend that i go for the PCR test or should i go for the regular antibody test and how long should i wait as well ?
thank you in advance for helping me on this, i would really appreciate to hear from you as soon as possible as i am really freaking out.