I was at my bachelor party in Mexico City and met this girl, she was 45, unknown HIV status but chances that she could be infected are high because she insisted so bad in having unprotected sex, which I totally refused. My exposures were the following:
1) The first one is in my opinion the most dangerous. I had a big cut in my finger (fresh cut) and I massaged her breast for about 5 minutes, I didn´t see any breast milk trough her breast but I felt a greasy sensation in all of my hands (which include the part with a big cut) it could probably be breast milk or any other breast fluid but a fluid was there. If this fluid entered my wound, am I at risk? I don´t have time to get tested since I ´ll get married in exactly 25 days and this exposure was almost two weeks ago.
2) I touched her trough her pants and underwear with the same hand (the one with the cut), she was wet but I don´t think my exposure was significant.
3) She touched herself (inserted a finger or more in her vagina) and then touched my penis trough my underwear (didn´t reach my penis directly but my underwear was filled with pre-*** and she surely touched that part) does this put me at any risk?
I do not want to put my soon to be wife at risk.
Can I have unprotected sex without testing and get married without worries?
I know you always say not to trust on symptoms but I woke up this morning with flu like symptoms, coughing, sneezing and with a headache, I do not have fever yet, my exposure was on friday 5 september, tomorrow will be two weeks.
Thanks in advance.
Paul.