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I married HIV affected lover.

I am not affected one by HIV married my boyfriend. He having HIV his cd4 is 692now. He told me everything about his HIV before our first kiss. We love each other. So we got married. But problem started after it. He worrying that will he speared hiv to me. Now a days he stopped to kissing me too. We used condoms for safe sex. But he stopped total body relationship now. He is suffering and worrying for me.

What do to do for this. I took him to counselling to but no result.

We love each other lot.
Sometimes i thought its better having hiv then he suffering for me.
Please help us

.When you’ve finished having sex (vaginal, anal or oral), hold the condom against the base of your penis while you pull out.
from chennai, India.
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11674388 tn?1436937846
Most of the people start consuming ARV drugs only when cd4 count decrease to 350. But experts recommend it is better to start ARV treatment earlier as possible.
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11674388 tn?1436937846
Hiv virus is not transmitted via saliva. No case was reported ever in that way. It is just a hoax.
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11674388 tn?1436937846
Hiv can only be transmitted through direct anal penetration, blood transfusion,breat milk and mother to child blood contact within the womb.
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Thanks friend. I will show this to him. Let see what reaction will come from my better half.
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11674388 tn?1436937846
Because Hiv transmission via saliva only have 0.01 percentage risk. That too if both of you have bleeding gums gums.
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11674388 tn?1436937846
Hiv will not be transmitted through kissing
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Two and half years before he was affected by HIV.
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Thanks.

But here having sex its not a problem. We can live without sex ever. I missing his kiss. He is also knew that hiv is not speared by kiss. But his heart and mind doesn't understand it.
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11674388 tn?1436937846
When was he was detected with hiv. If it was infected in less than 6 months ,it is more risky to have sex in that period because itz period of seroconversion in hiv patients.
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CD4 level is good so no need of ART treatment now. Now he is taking CoBoDex tablet everyday for keep cd4 level in same.
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11674388 tn?1436937846
If your husband is taking Antiretroviral (ART) medicines , then the spreading risk of HIV is minimised. But make sure to use condoms also.
You are 95% safe if you both are following the above 2 instructions.
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no if he is taking art then no issue they can do sex without condom
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No but in under monitor by doctors.
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11674388 tn?1436937846
Is your husband in ART treatment for HIV ?
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