I am trying to put behind me this situation.
I am married and i come from an extremely conservative family, with tons of guilt built in.
I had unprotected sex with a girl in December. I felt she was clean, and that I could handle it, but boy was I wrong.
By day two, I was a basket case. I was in a mental prison. My body was in sheer panic. To add to the anxiety, I had to spend lots of time with my family all together, and my wife decided she wants to have another child. The anxiety/guilt was off the charts.
I tested myself repeatedly,
DNA/PCR @ 19 days past
and then about 20 a/b tests, both rapid and blood lab draws. In addition I asked the girl to test, I took her at the 10 week past mark (73days) to labcorp. I got the results and they were negative.
I had some elevated WBC and Lymphocytes. My doc said its unrelated but this further kept me worried.
I have some white tongue and burning in the mouth, I went to 3 ENT's. 1 said Candida, the other two said nope. Two
tongue scrapings came back no fungus, but I still have the burning, which comes and goes.
I just went for another rapid test, Unigold A/B. just shy of seven months. thankfully negative.
let me ask the question the other way. Is it possible that all those tests on me, and the test on her could have missed something?
I am seeing a psychologist, but its going really slow. I know the guilt/anxiety/ocd are the main drivers of the fear. Can I absolutely rely on all these tests?
thanks for your help.