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Hi, DR. Thanks a lot for taking time to answer lots of the questions in this forum. Here is my story. I'm a Chinese guy, age 26. I went to massage couples of weeks ago. The lady massaged me and did a blowjob with condom. Before she did the blowjob, she climbed over my body when I was resting on the back and the outside part of her vigina touched my "unprotected" penis on the front part. Just for a short touch...(less than a second). I guessed there would be some secretion passed on my pennis? Then she rubbed her vigina on my leg for a while and I felt very dry, actually.
After that she drank some water and put the condom in her mouth in order to use her mouth to put the condom on my pennis, however, she put the wrong side in the first time. So she changed the side of the condom and put it on my pennis again. I think in this way, my pennis had touched some fluid in her mouth (saliva and water).
There is no viginal sex and I didn't touch her vigina with hands. When I finished, I went to shower immediately.
1) What is the risk for me to get hiv?
2) Actually, I had a stone in my urinary tract and it came out just 3 hours after the massage. I was freaking out. As I don't know if the stone scratch my unrinary tract this would put me in a risk? Does unrinary track infection increase the risk of getting hiv? I did not see any blood unrine at that night (I'm not sure if there is a little blood but at least the unrine was not red).
3) What happens if she had bleeding gums in her mouth?
Kind regards,
FanY
After that she drank some water and put the condom in her mouth in order to use her mouth to put the condom on my pennis, however, she put the wrong side in the first time. So she changed the side of the condom and put it on my pennis again. I think in this way, my pennis had touched some fluid in her mouth (saliva and water).
There is no viginal sex and I didn't touch her vigina with hands. When I finished, I went to shower immediately.
1) What is the risk for me to get hiv?
2) Actually, I had a stone in my urinary tract and it came out just 3 hours after the massage. I was freaking out. As I don't know if the stone scratch my unrinary tract this would put me in a risk? Does unrinary track infection increase the risk of getting hiv? I did not see any blood unrine at that night (I'm not sure if there is a little blood but at least the unrine was not red).
3) What happens if she had bleeding gums in her mouth?
Kind regards,
FanY
Hi, Dr José. Thanks a lot for the answer. This would be my last question. Just for mind peace and stop worrying. I have been worrying for about 2 months, actually.
I have some white skin/area/coating inside my lower lip. I do not know if it is trush. As trush is a sign of hiv (according to the internet search), I'm still worried. The white skin appeared 3 days after the exposure I decribed. At the begnning, I did not use any treatment. The symptom improves by itself. However, it never disappeared. So I started to take a medicine APHTORAL which contains: 1) Chlorhexidine Gluconate 3mg, 2) Tetracaine Hydrochloride 0.2mg, 3) Vitamin C (Ascorbic Acid) 5.25mg. I have taken two tablets and the symptom improves significantly (all white skins gone). Then I stopped taking the medicine for 1 day. But today, I found some white things in my lower lip again. (Not again, please...). It only happens inside my lower lip not on the other part of the mouth.
Is trush a early symptom of hiv?
Sorry if my question was meaningless. Maybe I do need to set my brain at rest.
King regrads,
FanY
I have some white skin/area/coating inside my lower lip. I do not know if it is trush. As trush is a sign of hiv (according to the internet search), I'm still worried. The white skin appeared 3 days after the exposure I decribed. At the begnning, I did not use any treatment. The symptom improves by itself. However, it never disappeared. So I started to take a medicine APHTORAL which contains: 1) Chlorhexidine Gluconate 3mg, 2) Tetracaine Hydrochloride 0.2mg, 3) Vitamin C (Ascorbic Acid) 5.25mg. I have taken two tablets and the symptom improves significantly (all white skins gone). Then I stopped taking the medicine for 1 day. But today, I found some white things in my lower lip again. (Not again, please...). It only happens inside my lower lip not on the other part of the mouth.
Is trush a early symptom of hiv?
Sorry if my question was meaningless. Maybe I do need to set my brain at rest.
King regrads,
FanY
MEDICAL PROFESSIONAL
Hello FanY,
Thank you very much for your post and welcome to our HIV forum.
Let me answer each of your questions regarding your sexual encounter here below:
1) What is the risk for me to get hiv?
NONE AT ALL WHATOSEVER. 0%.
2) Actually, I had a stone in my urinary tract and it came out just 3 hours after the massage. I was freaking out. As I don't know if the stone scratch my unrinary tract this would put me in a risk? Does unrinary track infection increase the risk of getting hiv? I did not see any blood unrine at that night (I'm not sure if there is a little blood but at least the unrine was not red).
THE ANSWER IS NO TO ALL THOSE QUESTIONS. NO RISK OF HIV, NO INCREASED RISK OF HIV INFECTION.
3) What happens if she had bleeding gums in her mouth?
NOTHING. THE POTENTIAL RISK WOULD REALLY BE FOR HER IF A POSITIVE MAN HAD EJACULATED INSIDE OF HER MOUTH AND NOT THE OTHER WAY AROUND. NO RISK OF HIV FOR YOU AT ALL.
I hope this helps.
Best wishes,
Dr José
Thank you very much for your post and welcome to our HIV forum.
Let me answer each of your questions regarding your sexual encounter here below:
1) What is the risk for me to get hiv?
NONE AT ALL WHATOSEVER. 0%.
2) Actually, I had a stone in my urinary tract and it came out just 3 hours after the massage. I was freaking out. As I don't know if the stone scratch my unrinary tract this would put me in a risk? Does unrinary track infection increase the risk of getting hiv? I did not see any blood unrine at that night (I'm not sure if there is a little blood but at least the unrine was not red).
THE ANSWER IS NO TO ALL THOSE QUESTIONS. NO RISK OF HIV, NO INCREASED RISK OF HIV INFECTION.
3) What happens if she had bleeding gums in her mouth?
NOTHING. THE POTENTIAL RISK WOULD REALLY BE FOR HER IF A POSITIVE MAN HAD EJACULATED INSIDE OF HER MOUTH AND NOT THE OTHER WAY AROUND. NO RISK OF HIV FOR YOU AT ALL.
I hope this helps.
Best wishes,
Dr José
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