I live in Dubai, and had an encounter with a CSW, chinese (very dumb) where I know I had Oral Sex, I remember it (unprotected) but don't remember having sex (I am pretty sure I didn't, but I was very intoxicated). When I woke up the next morning there was a unused condom next to the bed opened, which leads me to believe I didn't have sex, else wise she would have used it I guess. Well below are the facts.
Facts:
1) Unprotected Oral with CSW
2) Symptoms appearing after 7 days.
2) Don't think I had penetrative sex (I remember the oral part)
3) Burning/tingling sensation on tip penis constantly, also when peeing. Pain varies during the day, but I feel it.
4) Pain in left and right groin area
5) Pain in the border line of my right chest muscle and under arm pit, only when I move up and down. Pain also under the left arm. I feel my lymph nodes, I can see they are there.
6) She did bring condoms which leads me to believe she must have been aware of STD risk worried about her safety too.
7) Found an unused condom the next day on right bed side table.
8) Pee color has been really really yellow since incident.
9) The day after the interaction I did have like 3 pimples on my scrotum and scratched them away. It bleed and now is healed. Nothing since.
a) Am I at great risk for STD?
b) If so, which ones (any anti biotics you can suggest to cure)
c) What are my odds of contracting HIV?
d) Are those also HIV Symptoms?
e) I live in Dubai, and cannot get tested as I will be put behind bars if anything comes positive. I will be in the USA, for christmas for good. Is that too long to wait to get treatment or tested?
f) Is my life in grave danger?
g) Is I did have sex with that CSW, I can assume she was positive right? And I would automatically have contracted it?
I am so scared, cannot sleep at night, or be productive during the day. Feel like I want to die.
Thanks