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I know you have so much work to do but Please give me advice. I went with some friends and decided to get some girls(sex workers). I knew that I didnt want to do anything since I am in a relationship and the guilt will just kill me. Any how with some alcohol I kissed and possibly sucked the girls nipples tenderly and not roughly
for a brief moment  then I remembered that I had a chipped tooth (is this an opening?) and while she had her pants on as she was taunting me rubbed her vaginal area over her pants. While i was touching her body i felt a mole or pimple or something? Wart? Im worried that i might have caught something STD? HIV? Milk in nipple?
Since I have not done this in a long long time and have been in a committed relationship for a long time I havent even had sex with my fiance for a year waiting to get married. I am getting so guilty and afraid. I tested my self for hiv and stds awhile back and everything was fine I havent done anything except for now! DoI have to worry? Do I need to test again?  for std's or Hiv?I really dont know if my fears are warranted and irrational. WIth so much information I read and hear I am not sure what is right! Please help me thank you donation is on its way
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936016 tn?1332765604
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Hello again,

Firstly, I have answered this question already above and I don't see that there is a change.

Secondly I'm goin to remind you and everyone else of the Forum rules which are the same as those of the HIV Prevention Forum. They are indicated below:-

This forum is limited to prevention of HIV and to safe sex in general. If you believe you might have been exposed to HIV and want help to judge your risk, would like advice about HIV testing, or have questions about the effectiveness of condoms or the risks associated with specific sexual practices, this is the site for you. Please review other threads in our archives for questions similar to yours and Dr. Handsfield's replies. Duplicate questions for which abundant replies exist with little educational value for other forum users, will be DELETED WITHOUT RESPONSE. YOUR PAYMENT WILL NOT BE REFUNDED. Common examples of such questions are those about low risk exposures to HIV, such as oral sex, condom-protected intercourse, hand-to-genital exposure, and nonsexual contact with possibly infected blood or body fluids as well as symptoms of early HIV infection.
Questions that do not pertain to the above topics will be removed from the forum.

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o: dr sean

Doctor,

I did the hiv tests and std test long before this episode. I guess what I am trying to ask as you stated is there even a risk to what I did? Therefore should I even have myself test?

I tested almost a year ago all tests came out negative I even did it several times and since them I have refrained from doing anything I have also been in a relationship with one person practicing safe sex.  

So as you said  if there are no risks in what I did then test are not warranted?
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Doctor,

I did the hiv tests and std test long before this episode. I guess what I am trying to ask as you stated is there even a risk to what I did? Therefore should I even have myself test?

I tested almost a year ago all tests came out negative I even did it several times and since them I have refrained from doing anything I have also been in a relationship with one person practicing safe sex.  

So as you said  if there are no risks in what I did then test are not warranted?
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936016 tn?1332765604
MEDICAL PROFESSIONAL
Hello, from what you have said I really can't see any risk at all of anything. You haven't described any time scales so I am unable to say whether your HIV/STD tests etc were useful or not. I suspect they were unnecessary and prompted by your guilt.

Best wishes, Sean
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Just to follow yp AM i just being crazy? Paranoid and what happened to me  had no risks? I noticed a wound on my face from shaving cut on my hand I dont know just so guilty and scared I know I didnt have sex nor oral just kissed her body kissed her nipples and touched her body slighly and felt something toughed her over her pants slight feel only im about to get married been faithful cant go testing again for every incident or do I I tested been ok and havent done anything with anybody what should I be scared of what risks?

Thank you
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