very stressed

[mikeyk136]

Dear doctors, 2 years ago after a very upsetting breakup with a long term girlfriend I stupidly visited a massage parlour on two occasions. .I had protected oral and two hanjobs..I was quiet drunk the 2nd visit and dont remember it all but im sure I didnt have any penetrative sex..one year after this episode I had an anal wart removed that had been there before the massage parlour visits..now a further year on I have another recurrence of my anal  warts.
My first question is what were my chances of acquiring the HIV virus during this episode and secondly could the warts have been caused to recur because of this episode
Really worried and stressed as im with a very lovely lady now and scared of hurting her..she knows about the warts
Hope u can help

[Dr. Jose Gonzalez-Garcia, MD, MRCGP, PhD]

Hello,
Thank you for your post.
Receiving oral sex (even unprotected) and having a hand job do not pose any risk of HIV infection.  Therefore the HIV risk here is zero.
I do not believe that these anal warts are related to this episode as your anus was not involved in the sexual encounter, and the wart itself was present before anyway.
Best wishes,
Dr José

[mikeyk136]

Thank you dr..im going to see a specialist on thursday re the recurrence of anal warts..thanks for your reply