Hi everyone -
This is a support site for those living with HIV. We are a safe site for everyone, and whether or not we agree or disagree, personally, with someone else's choices or someone else's words, please remember judgments or insults are not allowed. It is possible to disagree without insults. If our members are unable to stay within our TOS, then support is lost for ALL our members when the thread comes down.
Thanks for your cooperation.
Emily
I'm sorry to hear about you're ex partner
You're formal for sex worked for both you and you're ex at the time. He knew the risks of barebacking. I was with someone who was Poz I was neg at the time we had a relationship for just over a year. We bare backed each other. But he wanted a open relationship. I was very hurt by this I knew he bare backed. We split for this reason. I went to sex clubs but bare backing was what I liked eventually got infected. Which distroyed me at the time. But went to self help groups. And met my husband there we now have a relationship where we play together as a couple we let other guys know our status. Your ex will get better in time but don't feel guility about him just be there as a friend if a relationship is what you both want go for it other wise don't go there. He will find his feet eventually but it will take time Message me anytime you. Like. We may not be angles but it doesnt make us bad people either. Take care big hugs. Steve xx