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2 months adequate enough?

I had sex with a prostitute that had her menstruation.  I have these scars from previous pimples that i popped near my belt line.  I didn't finish.  She put a condom on me before the 2 times we had sex (2x condoms).  After sex I took a shower and saw some blood on the condom.  I took an HIV about 2 months after exposure and results came back negative.  After my HIV test I had a fever and felt very week for a day and the next day it was gone.  How long do "fever-like" symptoms last for???  Now i have this "pimple" like bump on the left side of my neck.  I tried popping it, but nothing came out and it's somewhat sensitive.  When i squeeze it hard i can feel some pain.  Are these swollen lymph nodes???

I had sex with my girlfriend and when she was goin to give me a blow job (only about 2 sucks) i told her to stop.  Whenever we have sex I always use a condom with her.

1.) will 2 months (maybe a little more than 2 months) time be enough to have results where i dont have to worry if i have HIV or not?
2.) Will those 2 sucks she gave me during a blowjob be in danger for possible HIV infection
3.) Will those scars from pimples popped near my belt line (a little under) be dangerous to have sex if an infected girl sits ontop of me and gets some fluid on it?
4.) I'm starting to feel better after reading some questions on the forum, but i feel like i need my questions answered also :) So, that little fever-like experience i had for a day show signs of HIV??? I took a paracetamol and it got better within a few hours.
5.) my girlfriend has been experiencing neck pain/calf muscle pain.  she just had some yellow/green discharge without any smell or itching.  is she in danger? we talked to a pharmacist and she said it shouldn't be so serious so now she's on meds to help it out.

THANKS FORUM!!!
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you guys are great...i am really surprised about how quickly people respond on this forum...i think i'll have to stick with it.  

as for the HIV test, does it have to be exactly 3 months...what about 2 months 2 weeks???

i always have protected sex with my girlfriend :)

It's just that, these problems have been ruining my social life and mental health.  i know that another hiv test will do the trick, but it's just nerve wrecking waiting for the results...anyway you guys are great and i'll be sticking to this forum to support others also...THANKS GUYS!!!
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can someone see my post down bellow and help me :((
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1. Two months can be used to ease the mind and a negative result is semi reliable, however, three months is the magic number.  A two month negative test is a good indicator, but not necessarily conclusive.

2.  HIV is not transmitted via oral, therefore the answer is no.

3. No.  Were they open sores?  Scars are normally not open.  Even if they were I would highly doubt that this would pass the virus.

4. The symptoms to HIV are nearly identical to those of a million other things, many of which are not serious at all.

5.  No.  See above answer.
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(1) You never had a risk of contracting HIV, so this doesn't matter - protected sex = no risk
(2) NO, Oral sex carries ZERO RISK for HIV infection
(3) NO
(4) NO
(5) If she is having concerns with discharge that may be a problem,  Did you ever have unprotected sex with her or her someone else with out testing for HIV or other STDs ?

What you have listed above did not in any way put you at risk for HIV

Hope this helps

Best Wishes
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