risk of cunnilingus with some tiny acnes and reuse condom

[liveforchildren]

Dear doctors and admins

This Afternoon I had sex with my ex-girlfriend with condom (intact, no break after checking). But the condom she gave me that is very lubricant and I'm afraid that it is old and can be reused. And during intercouse. I perform cunnilingus with some  very tiny acnes on my lips (near my lips). So I have some questions

1/ Is it a risk if I perform cunnilingus with some tiny acnes on my lip?
2/ If there was sperm in the condom. And after about 10 minutes I unintentionally used that condom again that my penis may be in that sperm. So Am I at risk?
3/ Do I need a pep or a test for this situation

Thank you

[Kirstie_MHModerator]

There is nothing more for our members to say about your no-risk event.

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[AnxiousNoMore]

Were your prior posts that were closed asking if you can get infected while using a condom too?

[liveforchildren]

No sir, this is my second question after question " Can penetration accidentally unknowing". I know the rules, and repsect it. I never create a second account in this forum sir

[AnxiousNoMore]

Seek therapy, which is what you should have done after your last post where you thought you could penetrate and not know it. You are wasting your life with an hiv fixation that is a bit of a mental health issue at this point. You have far greater risk of Covid from your encounters but ignore that risk while focusing on non-existent hiv "claims" that you read on the internet.

[liveforchildren]

Thank you AnxiousNomore. Just because I have some tiny acnes on my lip and it makes me worried

[AnxiousNoMore]

That is an unscientific fear which is oddly similar to your lack of fear of Covid; if you reread about dead you should be able to relax.

[AnxiousNoMore]

Your situation involves personal contact with an object in air  ( her body parts, vaginal fluids, maybe blood etc.). You will be happy to learn that you had no risk, because you can't get hiv from personal contact except unprotected penetrating vaginal or anal, neither of which you did and you didn't share hollow needles to inject with which is the only other way to acquire hiv. Analysis of large numbers of infected people over the 40 years of hiv history has proven that people don't get hiv in the way you are worried is a risk.
HIV is a fragile virus in air or saliva and is effectively instantly dead in either air or saliva so the worst that could happen is dead virus rubbed you, and obviously anything which is dead cannot live again so you are good. Blood and cuts would not be relevant in your situation since the hiv has become effectively dead, so you don't have to worry about them to be sure that you are safe.
There is no reason for a person to test when they are safe. The advice took into consideration that the other person might be positive, so move on and enjoy life instead of thinking about this non-event. hiv prevention is straightforward since there are only 3 ways you can become infected, so next time you wonder if you had a risk, ask yourself this QUESTION. "Did I do any of the 3?" Then after you say "No, I didn't" you will know that it's time to move on back to your happy life.
No one got hiv from what you did during 40 years of hiv history and no one will get it in the next 40 years of your life either. You can do what you did any time and be safe from hiv.
1,3 No. If a condom fails it is a large rip down the seam and it burst wide open so it is a waste of time checking it closely. Both of you would have noticed since it's hard to take off when if fails.
2. No, that makes no sense. How could your sperm infect you? The answer is, you can't infect yourself especially since you are negative because you used a condom.

[liveforchildren]

Thanks. I just make ot clearer for question 2 that the sperm of another man in the condom. And after about 10 minutes. I used again unintentionally that condom and my penis dip in that the sperm of another man. Am I at risk in this situation? thanks

[CurfewX]

If you suspect a  woman is giving you condoms that another man has already used, you should run away, not have intercourse her.

But no, it is not a risk for HIV.  If you do not put your penis in a vagina or anus, unprotected, and you do not share intravenous needles with other people, you will NEVER get HIV.

[liveforchildren]

Thank you Curfew. I search and found that there may be a infection case from woman to a man performing cunnilingus. Is it true Curfew? I'm worry because there are 2-3 tiny acnes on my lip. I lick her vagina very long and hard. I'm afraid that her vagina fluid contact my acnes or my sores (now known) in my mouth

As for a condom. Because I felt the condom is very lubricant, so I'm afraid that she gave me the condom used by another man. But I'm pretty sure after 10-15 minutes I used that condom unintentionally. I asked her and she said I'm mad. She is my ex-gf, but she has compicated relationship

[AnxiousNoMore]

You can find anything on the internet. The first step to peace is to accept that you have no medical training so you will either misinterpret medical reports or get sucked into believing claims that people make up. The second step is to quit googling hiv cold turkey because you can find anything on the internet so are wasting your time googling for death and scaring yourself.
Reread my advice about instantly and worst then move on instead of making hiv a hobby.

[AnxiousNoMore]

She hasn't complicated your relationship - you have complicated it with hiv fixation caused by ignoring 40 years of science done by researchers, in favor of your own ideas that you get from reading someone on the internet providing false info or non-applicable info.

[liveforchildren]

Anxiousnomore. I forgot to mention that before performing Cunnilingus. I brush my teeth. And after about 30 minutes I performed cunnilingus. Do this change your assesment?