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AM I INFECTED..

Some days ago, I met a girl ( unknown status). We had some chit-chat and thantouching eachother hidden portion. She also showed her nipple. After tha she allowed me to suck her nipple for few seconds.She also touched her vagina and than she stroked me over my clothes.Now after around 15 dyas i am suffering from these symptoms-fatigue,joint pain,white tongue and taste of my mouth changed.
Is it due hiv infection. Please reply me with your advice.
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186166 tn?1385259382
still no risk
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Hmmm, admit1983
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480448 tn?1426948538
We are not doctors nor can we diagnose any kind of medical problem over the internet.  Like lizzie said...work with your doctor, it has nothing to do with HIV.

Please read the rules of the forum as teak has posted for you.  Time to move on.
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186166 tn?1385259382
if you are having health concerns, work with your dr...it's NOT hiv related.
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Please do not get angry please.
I have undergone myself with blood work. This is the result after 5 months ( of my activity).
Please help me in diognising .

I am in consultation with doctor. I have already undergone many tests with blood work. I am still in touch with doctor. Eventhough I am asking you all experts. Whats the wrong in it.
Can you help me . My test result is as below.
1) Total Count of WBC- 8700cumm
2) Differential leucocytes-
a) neutrophiles- 66%
b) lymphocytes-30%
c) Eosinophils- 04%
3) ESR first hour- 06mm

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480448 tn?1426948538
You seriously need professional help.  You must have sex, or share IV drug needles or equipment to become infected.  Period.  You cannot accept that you had no risk...so get some help.  We can't continue to repeat ourselves over and over.  Move on,.
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186166 tn?1385259382
you've been told REPEATEDLY that you had no risk.   why would you come back and ask this?  do you think our assessment will change?
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can anybody please tell me that Chest filled with dry cough is a symptoms of hiv infection. I am having my chest filled with dry cough from last three days. Now i am really freaking out i am having HIV infection. because i have got all the symptoms...
Please help
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Yes get married--you don't have HIV.Your symptoms are not related to HIV.Move along please.
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hi
sorry i came again.

During last 10 days i went to various doctor i.e physician, neurologist etc. But no one could get my problem. I didnot told them about my encounter. But i told them all my symptoms. they gave me medicine.
But i am still in trouble.
My shoulder, neck, armpit groin etc are still paining. My tongue is still white. I have to clean it twice or thrice daily. my stomach still make grawling noise constantly.What to do.
All early symptoms have already come like, muscle pain, headache, one month sore throat, tingling in palm & foot. chill feeling all over my body, skin rash all over my both arm.
Now please suggest me what to do. Really am scared.

I think now that i am HIV now,.  I am scared . I am still unmarried and was planning to get married this year.I am thing whether to marry or not
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480448 tn?1426948538
What  I mean is, exactly what it says.....you make your own decisions.  You can't decide to do something and then harass the partner you did it with, looking for clarification of their status, etc, because you have become anxious.  Especially to go to the lengths you have, making up outrageous stories in order to get proof of her HIV status?.  That's just ridiculous.  If you want printed proof a partner is not infected, the time to ask would be before, not after you enter into a sexual relationship.

Her HIV status is irrelevant, as you didn't have a risk...but for future reference, when you enter into a consensual sexual relationship, YOU are responsible for the risks you decide to take, not your partner.
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Thanks nursegirl,
Please believe me, this is my last post on this matter.But please clarify me why you said this line ......"YOU make your OWN decisions about sexual acts".

I will move on now.....


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480448 tn?1426948538
YOU NEVER HAD A RISK....EVER.

Also, why in the world are you still bothering this girl?  And tricking her into showing proof of her status with proimises of high priced sex?  That indicates that you aee not thinking rationally, anxiety has gotten out of control, your behavior is out of control.  LEAVE THE GIRL ALONE.....she does not owe you proof of anything...for one, because you were never at risk, and two, because YOU make your OWN decisions about sexual acts.

LET IT GO, AND GET SOME HELP...SERIOUSLY.  There's not ONE more thing we can tell you in this forum, it's time for you really to move along.
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If I was in your shoes I would not test at all because I would realize I had no risk.I would get on with life & stop worrying for nothing.
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ok thanks rainlover.....
Actually my tongue is white even today so it makes me worried.
Ok last suggestion....if you were at my place would you have got tested? Give your valuable suggestion to me please.....should i get tested...
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Then you never had a risk & you have already been told this so why are you worried.You don't have HIV.It's time to move on.
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your right Rainlover71....
as i have already told i have not done any sex peneterative or oral. Only i sucked her nipple and i think she was be lacting.Also she masterbated me I may have swallowed some drops of milk and i am having all symptoms which started from 9th day and it continues till now after 19th weeks.
And i am scared to go for test....so i asked her to test.
This activity of sucking her nipple was the only thing i did. nothing else.
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You don't rely on other peoples test results or what they tell you.What you do is use protection & then you don't need to worry either way.
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Hi friends,
By telling the girl ( who messaged me and i sucked her nipple) that some of my friends want to have sex with her but before that she needs to show the hiv test report. I told her that they will pay lot of money but only condition is she needs to be -ve. and she must go for test and bring the test report with her. Also i  told her that she will also have to go with them for rapid test. If she will be -ve in both case than they will pay her. She was ready. She got tested and she told that the person in the testing lab has told her that everything is fine. I dont know whether to believe her or not. Is she telling lie.
What is your opinion. Remember she is not educated.But she knows that what is hiv.
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186166 tn?1385259382
kindly move along...you do not have a hiv concern and we simply cannot keep this back and forth going, just to satisfy your anxiety.

facts are facts...you never had a risk ! ! !
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my friend since its already 4 months may be you should try having a test =D just to clear your mind =D
LIZZIE LOU, RAINLOVER and Teak are really knowledgeable in this field =D  
its negative for sure =D have faith, avoid stress and stay healthy =D
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My friend i have sucked her nipple.....She might be some breast milk which i might have swallowed. Ha yes that is the only sexual thing i have done in my life.
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in order for you to have a HIV, you should exchange bodily fluids right?
im confused how come you feel all of this if you have'nt got sex?
may be its Anxiety my friend

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Dear experts here,
Please teel me the how long ARS symptoms last, if it starts from 2nd weeks of infection?
Does the white tongue continues forever soon after showing the symptomes?
And the pain in node lasts till how many days?

I am asking this because i am still having all these symptoms. started withFfatigue, Loss of apetite,White tongue, Somw pains & continues with tinglinf in palm & feet, sore throat, chill feeling, and white tongue still there even after 4 months,

Do u think i should go for testing.

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