Anal sex without a condom

[PDD12]

Hi.
I've recently had anal sex for the first time without a condom. My partner didn't ejaculate at all and to the naked eye, I saw no precum. Neither of us have been tested for STD's because I'm a virgin, and he has only had sex twice. With the two partners he has had, he's used a condom both times, and has never given, or received oral sex before. I wanted to know, based on his limited sexual experience (and the fact that neither of his parents have HIV) what is the likelihood that he has the disease (low, moderate, high)? I also wanted to know that if he DOES have HIV somehow, with no precum or ejaculation, what is the likelihood of me catching it?

When would be a good time for both of us to get tested, like how long should we wait from today?

[ashibhat]

you can wait for 1 month and have duo test, if that negative then have a standard antibody test after 3 months for conclusive test.

[Braveheart124]

Baseline right now. And then after 3 montsh :)

[PDD12]

When can I get a baseline test?

[Teak]

There are no IFs in HIV.

[Braveheart124]

Teak is right of course! That's why i sad IF !

[Teak]

You never take anyone word that they did or did not have protected sex, you weren't there.

[PDD12]

THank you :)

[Braveheart124]

If he is telling the true and condoms used properly-risk for him is zero.

[PDD12]

So with him using condoms both times he has had sex prior to me, and with him never receiving or giving oral sex before, what are his risks for having it?

[Teak]

You don't need ejaculation to transmit HIV. Get you baseline test and then obtain your conclusive test result 3 months post exposure.

[Braveheart124]

If your partner allways used protection before you, he do not have HIV and he can not pass on you something that he don't have. Oral sex is not risk for HIV. If your partner's status is questionable, you should go for ELISA antibody test 3 months after your last exposure, and during this time (3 months) you should not have unprotected sex with him.