Hello, Me again...
I'm gay. I've never had anal sex before. I met someone yesterday. We kissed etc. You know, simple lovemaking. Then he wanted to rub my anus. I knew beforehand that this was not a risk. That's why I accepted. After a little rimming he started to rub. Then suddenly the head of the penis forced my anus. It hurt and I wanted it to stop. I am 100% sure this is not penetration. However, I felt like his penis was snuggling slightly into the ring-like muscle in the anus. I found out on the internet that this is dipping and it is transmitted this way. I thought the penis had to be completely inside for penetration to occur. However, this too was a kind of penetration.
While I had just taken my anxiety under control, now it's out of control again.
Does this situation pose a risk? I wanted to ask you too.