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Any HIV risk from flipping over a condom?

We did an anal intercourse, before entry he wore a condom with wrong side and he cannot wear it, it touched his forehead and he immediately turned to another side and wore with it, we rubbed it with lube around 30 seconds. The whole process wore with condom and he didn’t ejact at the end.

Is it a high risk to me?
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Your situation involves personal contact with an object in air  (hand, clothes,  fluids, forehead, condom, etc. ). You will be happy to learn that you had no risk, because you can't get hiv from personal contact except unprotected penetrating vaginal or anal with a penis, neither of which you did and you didn't share hollow needles to inject with which is the only other way to acquire hiv - there are ONLY 3 ways to get hiv. Note that 2 of them require a penis and the third requires a hollow injecting shared needle - there are no OTHER ways to get hiv. Analysis of large numbers of infected people over the 40 years of hiv history has proven that people don't get hiv in the way you are worried is a risk.
Hiv is a fragile virus in air or saliva and is effectively instantly dead in either air or saliva so the WORST that could happen is dead virus rubbed you, and obviously anything which is dead cannot live again so you are good. Blood and cuts would not be relevant in your situation since the hiv has become effectively dead, so you don't have to worry about them to be sure that you are safe.
There is no reason for a person to test when they are safe. The advice took into consideration that the other person might be positive, so move on and enjoy life instead of thinking about this non-event. hiv prevention is straightforward since there are only 3 ways you can become infected, so next time you wonder if you had a risk, ask yourself this QUESTION. "Did I do any of the 3?" Then after you say "No, I didn't" you will know that it's time to move on back to your happy life.
No one got hiv from what you did during 40 years of hiv history and no one will get it in the next 40 years of your life either.  You can do what you did any time and be safe from hiv.
The other person's status is irrelevant when you have no exposure to live virus.
Refer to previous advice next time. https://www.medhelp.org/posts/HIV-Prevention/Am-I-a-high-risk/show/3057880
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Thank you, is it prostate milk also with virus? The HIV virus will dead in air immediately if his prostate milk polluted the condom? I will ask to change a new one if happen in the future  
Reread the advice instead of skipping over it and then asking endless questions.
Did the advice say you had a risk? No, so move on.
Thank you
I’m sorry that my worry because when he wore the wrong side condom maybe his pre cum has polluted it, he turned over the condom to another side and after 30 seconds he wore this condom for the intercourse, if the pre cum and virus is effectively instantly dead in the air, I have no need to worry about it
he answered you already.
I hope I’m safe :) thanks
Reread about "fragile" instead of skipping over the advice and then asking the same endless questions over and over.
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