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Your advice on risk please
On the 7th April, went over to a guys place who i have known for about 2 years have not seen him in a year though. He rimmed me and fingered me and we kissed etc and ****** each other all safe, have always had safe anal sex with him. know him
Anyway went over his last Wednesday and did the same, since this event I have found out that he has been HIV positive for 6 months, only found out on the Friday after, and when I found out went immediately to the Hospital and spoke to the health advisor and said that I wanted PEP, they didn’t want to give it to me, but I said that he *** in my mouth (which he didn’t) but there could have been pre-***, as I sucked him for quite a long time and was deep throating him.
I am just worried that;
1. I sucked him off, but he didn’t *** but how about the pre-***
2. He had a cold, does this mean he is more susceptible at passing on the illness
3. That I had my finger deep in his arse and fingered him but no cuts on my fingers
4. That he rimmed me and was spitting on my arse, how about if his spit got into my arse or a cut in my arse?
5. That after he f**ked me and made me ***, he put a condom on me and because I was still hard I f**ked him. To keep me hard he put his finger inside my arse and fingered me a bit. When I got home there was a small tear just inside my bum probably from him f**king me. I am just thinking that if he got precum (dont remember any) or a bit of anal mucus on his finger (cus he put lube inside his arse) and then touched the small tear then I may have been put at risk! He said that he does not precum much at all and there was lube and stuff and he *** on my chest that was wiped off with a towel
He has told me that he has been on meds for 6 months right since he found out and has been undetectable for the last couple of months
The main thing that worries me is number 5 above and the cut in my arse and my giving him oral sex
I suffer with serve anxiety regarding HIV so this is probably the worst thing that can happen to me.
Please help!!!
Thanks
Anyway went over his last Wednesday and did the same, since this event I have found out that he has been HIV positive for 6 months, only found out on the Friday after, and when I found out went immediately to the Hospital and spoke to the health advisor and said that I wanted PEP, they didn’t want to give it to me, but I said that he *** in my mouth (which he didn’t) but there could have been pre-***, as I sucked him for quite a long time and was deep throating him.
I am just worried that;
1. I sucked him off, but he didn’t *** but how about the pre-***
2. He had a cold, does this mean he is more susceptible at passing on the illness
3. That I had my finger deep in his arse and fingered him but no cuts on my fingers
4. That he rimmed me and was spitting on my arse, how about if his spit got into my arse or a cut in my arse?
5. That after he f**ked me and made me ***, he put a condom on me and because I was still hard I f**ked him. To keep me hard he put his finger inside my arse and fingered me a bit. When I got home there was a small tear just inside my bum probably from him f**king me. I am just thinking that if he got precum (dont remember any) or a bit of anal mucus on his finger (cus he put lube inside his arse) and then touched the small tear then I may have been put at risk! He said that he does not precum much at all and there was lube and stuff and he *** on my chest that was wiped off with a towel
He has told me that he has been on meds for 6 months right since he found out and has been undetectable for the last couple of months
The main thing that worries me is number 5 above and the cut in my arse and my giving him oral sex
I suffer with serve anxiety regarding HIV so this is probably the worst thing that can happen to me.
Please help!!!
Thanks
You cannot get HIV from an HIV-positive person from oral sex. Unprotected anal sex and sharing IV drug works are risks though.
How about the risk giving a positive guy oral and the tear just inside my arse that was fresh from him f••king me. If pre *** or anal mucus got into it
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