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Any risk of HIV from kissing mouth to mouth and sucking breast of a massage girl.

I went to massage center,  where i was completely naked.  Massage girl was half naked only she removed top portion bra and open with boobs.  Didnot remove below dress of her.
While performing massage i got sexual feeling and tempted and performed kissing mouth to mouth for sometime however the kiss was not so deep it was on lips. For few 2-3mints
Secondly i sucked her open boobs for quite some time for nearly 5mints and kissed boobs.
Thirdly i pulled her close to me by pulling her right hand arm by my hands which resulted slight reddish rash due to pull to her.  No blood.
I ejuculated on her dress.
Based on the above scenarios any risk of hiv or any stds.
Im really worried now,  didnot perform any Intercourse sex, oral or anal sex.
Im afraid to have sex with my wife as i dont want to put her in risk.
Do i really need any testing.  Please help me as im very stressed.
Will not do such things further.  Will avoid going such places and instances. Please anyone help and respond.
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Thats not a risk because you did not have any unprotected sex and because of that theres no need to test at all.
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Thank you.  But in some forums im browsing showing some risk with kissing mouth to mouth with bleeding gums.  And sucking breast also has risk of transmission if she has any cuts.
Im not sure whether there are bleeding gums in my mouth or her mouth.  Whether lips have any cracks.
Still with the above is it still risk zero.
Can i come out and can i involve unprotected sex with my wife.  Please advice me
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This answers all of your HIV questions, and if you can think of any more just reread about the 3. You had zero risk therefore  testing is irrelevant to your situation because you had zero risk. HIV is a fragile virus, which is instantly inactivated in air and also in saliva which means it is effectively dead so it can't infect from touching, external rubbing or oral activities. It doesn't matter if you and they were actively bleeding or had cuts at the time either because the HIV is effectively dead.  
Only 3 adult risks are the following:
1. unprotected penetrating vaginal with a penis
2. unprotected penetrating anal sex with a penis
3. sharing needles that you inject with.
The only way to get HIV is if you did one of the 3. The situation you describe is a long way from any of these 3.
Even with blood, lactation, cuts, rashes, burns, etc the air or the saliva does not allow inactivated virus to infect from touching, external rubbing or oral activities. Doctors have calculated the risk from what you describe to be less than that of being hit by a meteor, therefore no one will get HIV from what you did in the next 40 years of your life either. The above HIV science is 40 years old and very well established, so no detail that you can add to your encounter will change it from zero risk.
We rely on the opinion of expert docs and do not pay attention to whatever site you can locate on the internet because some use theoretical risks that have never manifested in real life. Only disease risk was flu which you can get kissing a woman who kisses every guy in town.
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Thank you very much.  Im relaxed now.  Your detailed answer helped me alot.  Once again thanks. Now i allay fears of risks and continue relationship with my wife with free and peaceful mind.
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