Hi everybody, hope you are doing all well. I think this forum is a great resource...
Here is my little history. I am currently living in the UK. I am spanish. Two weeks ago I met a wonderful welsh girl in a pub. I talked to her for a while and then I asked her number. We started dating each other 2-3 times per week or so. Everything was cool, normal I think. Yesterday I went to her house and we started making out/ snogging I think she was waiting for me to make the move for having sexual intercourse. But I never did that. I was scared even when I was planning to use condoms. I have read a lot about HIV and its transmission, etc...and the whole thing its so scary. Questions going through my mind like, what if the condom breaks?, and what about oral sex, both receiving and giving?, is it totally zero risk really?, make me hesitate a lot now that I am aware about HIV...
She is 27, I am 24. I asked about her past relationships and she says she have had just a couple of boyfriends in the past, one of them lasting 3-4 years. I know that she has been travelling a lot in south america for tourism. Am I being paranoic?, What is the real risk here if I decided to have sex with her and the condom breaks?, or if I give oral sex to her and she gives me oral sex without using a condom?...
God bless you all, thank you for making time to read my post
Kind Regards,