I am really worried and don't know what to do.. I had unprotected gay sex 7 months ago, I wasnt really afraid as the guy said he is "clean" after 5 months I got alot of symptoms that I never got! I had a severe stomach pain, diarrhea, extreme fatigue that I couldnt move for 2 weeks, night sweats, pain with urinitaion, stomache gasses and penis white bumps that doctors dont know what is it and most of them say it "may be fordyce spots" but it appeared with this illness, Went to the hospital and did multiple cbc tests and urine tests, my lymphocytes where high between 60% ~ 68%, liver enzymes where also high and elevated, I had a little amount of blood in urine and ketones but with no infection, I also did a MRI, xray, ultra sound for my kidney and back, every thing was normal, lastly I did an hepatitis tests a,b,c that came back negative but I had a fatty liver, after some days of pain I went and the doctor orderd an esophugus endoscopy and it was normal I just had mild acid reflux, I took some medication and I didnt get better tell a month, every thing was Ok and then I decided to take an hiv 4th generation test and it came back negative, one more month and did it again and it was also negative, after the tests and medication I felt fine, but I had this chronic dihareha when I eat letuce or some foods, and pain in urine and ejaculation when masturbating, and mild swollen lymph node in side of my neck, I forgot about HIV and returned to my study's and every thing was alright, but last week I went to a friend party, and kissed a random girl, my lips are chapped and I always remove the dry skin because Im always nervous, she only pulled my lower chapped lips with her lips, and when I felt her saliva I moved back, 2 days later I knew she was HIV postive and not on any medication!!!! Im really worried and dont know what to do! I also cant sleep and Im having a lot of night sweats, I know I am acting like a child because I put my self at risk twice, Im also having sucidal thoughts, because of the swollen lymph nodes and night sweats! Please help, doctors in my country arent well informed about HIV.
1, Are these symptoms from my last unprotected exposure?
2. Is kissing a risk and can I get infected if I have chapped lips from 5 hours maybe?
3. Do I need to test? because I feel unconfortabel waiting for my tests result because every test is sent to England
4. If yes, what tests do I need Im not sexually active, my first sex was that unprotected one and I wont have sex because sex = illness