No you aren't experiencing hiv symptoms since you had no HIV risk and it doesn't matter if he was positive so any test was a waste of time. You don't have any medical training so likely don't know what lymph are supposed to feel like, so should avoid irritating sore spots.
HIV is instantly inactivated in air and also in saliva which means it is effectively dead so it can't infect from touching, external rubbing or oral activities. It doesn't matter if you and they were actively bleeding or had cuts at the time either because the HIV is effectively dead. If he was positive then he kissed with dead virus, and dead is final as you know.
Only adult risks are the following:
1. unprotected penetrating vaginal
2. unprotected penetrating anal sex
3. sharing needles that you inject with. Knowing these 3 are all you need to know to protect yourself against HIV. Your situation is a long way from any of these 3.
Even with blood, lactation, cuts, rashes, burns, etc the air or the saliva does not allow inactivated virus to infect from touching, external rubbing or oral activities. The above HIV science is 40 years old and very well established so there is no detail that you can add that will make any of your encounter a risk for HIV. No one in 40 years of HIV history got HIV from the situation you are concerned about so it is unlikely that it will happen in the next 40 of your lifetime either.
Sorry, ignore this part because it is a bunch of typos. "If he was positive then he kissed with dead virus, and dead is final as you know."
Anxiousnomore isn't the only one who gives that information as most of the people who are knowledgeable on MedHelp give that answer. This is what HIV experts believe. And to date, not a single documented case of HIV from oral sex has occurred. Not one. We are not really responsible for explaining biology but are giving you the information to accept or not. But Oral sex is not a risk beyond theoretical which means it is not something doctors are concerned about or believes will happen. Saliva has enzymes in it that inactivate the HIV virus. With regards to air, HIV is a very weak virus and must be in a controlled environment to survive. It dies in air. Period.
HIV is much harder to get than people who ask questions here usually think. .
Sorry, got side tracked--- to the person asking about their exposure, oral sex is not a risk as said. The only way adults get HIV is from unprotected vaginal or anal sex or sharing of IV drug needles, so this wasn't a risk. Good news! Use condoms!