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Unprotected oral with frottage

Hello
My english  not good.
For 30 days ago i had:
1-received oral sex for 20 seconds .
2-rubbing genitals cum outsid .
Im very afraid if i get hiv .from Vaginal fluid Through the
Tip of the penis.

I tested 3 times combo test HIV 1+2 (Ag+Ab);P in the hospital (blood from vien )
First time at 21 days
Second time at 23 days
Last time at 28.5 days
All results are negative .
What is the risk ?
Should i test again ?
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The only risks for HIV in adults are:
1) Having unprotected anal or vaginal sex, or
2) sharing intravenous needles.

Nothing else you can think of, including the events you mentioned, would put you at risk for HIV.
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May I ask this thing please.
Since I am not in a good mental state at the time.
Regardless of the practice I had with the woman.  Is the test result after 28.5  days conclusive?
It was conclusive at any time since you did not have contact with live hiv.                                                                
    Instead of testing for a disease you were not exposed to, you might as well have tested to see if she made you pregnant or to see if you were able to fly like a bird afterwards  since all 3 of those are impossible and imaginary. Enjoy your life instead of wasting it worrying about imaginary things that can't happen.
AnxiousNoMore
Iam worry because if i dont want to transmitte my wife.
Any way i dont know how i can say thank you soo sooo much
Well, you don't have to worry about transmitting to her, because there is no hiv to transmit. If the other person had hiv, it was all dead by the time it touched you.
I test again at 36 days bcz im very worry .
Its negativ . 4th generation combo test
Seek therapy because at this point your anxiety is a bit of a mental illness. No one here can provide the anxiety support you need. Not sure why you are posting your test because everyone told you it was a waste of time.
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It is abnormal to test for the same disease more than once. In fact there was no reason to test even once. If you test again it will show that you have an hiv fixation which is a mental health issue.
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Your situation involves personal contact with an object in air  ( mouth, body, lips, etc.). You will be happy to learn that you had no risk, because you can't get hiv from personal contact except unprotected penetrating vaginal or anal, neither of which you did and you didn't share hollow needles to inject with which is the only other way to acquire hiv. Analysis of large numbers of infected people over the 40 years of hiv history has proven that people don't get hiv in the way you are worried is a risk.
HIV is a fragile virus in air or saliva and is effectively instantly dead in either air or saliva so the worst that could happen is dead virus rubbed you, and obviously anything which is dead cannot live again so you are good. Blood and cuts would not be relevant in your situation since the hiv has become effectively dead, so you don't have to worry about them to be sure that you are safe.
There is no reason for a person to test when they are safe. The advice took into consideration that the other person might be positive, so move on and enjoy life instead of thinking about this non-event. hiv prevention is straightforward since there are only 3 ways you can become infected, so next time you wonder if you had a risk, ask yourself this QUESTION. "Did I do any of the 3?" Then after you say "No, I didn't" you will know that it's time to move on back to your happy life.
No one got hiv from what you did during 40 years of hiv history and no one will get it in the next 40 years of your life either. You can do what you did any time and be safe.
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Thank you soo much
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