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Concern regarding HIV AND STD’s

I had an protected sex at an asian spa with a women and first she gave me blowjob and then sex for just 2 mins after that she removed my condom and cleaned my penis with hot white towel and later she gave a hand job which is unprotected she used some kind of lube i guess and 2 weeks later i developed rashes on my arms near elbows and lower back thighs. And also a small pimple appeared on my penis today morning and I’m feeling fatigue all the day. Have i contracted with HIV?. This thought is bugging me out. What is the accuracy 4rth generation hiv test if i take now ( 2week 2 days) . Can some one gelp me with my situation. I’m still 22 and worried avout my life.
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These are the only risks for getting HIV.  Having unprotected vaginal or anal sex or sharing IV needles to inject drugs. Air and saliva inactivate the virus. Hand jobs are never a risk. They are also not a risk for std's. I don't know why you have a rash but worth consulting with a doctor. NOT due to HIV. No risks means it could not be hiv related.
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i had a little cut near penis while shaving my hair th day before i visited spa. that is the concern scaring me.
Still zero risk. A hand does not transmit the virus. Air is present. And hands also do not transmit std's. NO RISK
Okay thank you but the rashes began to spread all over my hands . Like the red pimple shaped bumps . Any ways any-other possible std’s?
Not from a hand job.
May be if her hands are filled with vaginal fluids .cuz she wiped herself two times in between intercourse
seriously, I've now answered this question three times for you. AIR inactivates the virus. Hand jobs are no risk. Please accept this and move on. thank you
I’m sorry and thankyou for the reply
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Your situation involves personal contact with an object in air  (touching penis, maybe someone's blood on hand,  etc. ). You will be happy to learn that you had no risk, because you can't get hiv from personal contact except unprotected penetrating vaginal or anal with a penis, neither of which you did and you didn't share hollow needles to inject with which is the only other way to acquire hiv - there are ONLY 3 ways to get hiv. Note that 2 of them require a penis and the third requires a hollow injecting shared needle - there are no OTHER ways to get hiv. Analysis of large numbers of infected people over the 40 years of hiv history has proven that people don't get hiv in the way you are worried is a risk.
Hiv is a fragile virus in air or saliva and is effectively instantly dead in either air or saliva so the WORST that could happen is dead virus rubbed you, and obviously anything which is dead cannot live again so you are good. Blood and cuts would not be relevant in your situation since the hiv has become effectively dead, so you don't have to worry about them to be sure that you are safe.
There is no reason for a person to test when they are safe. The advice took into consideration that the other person might be positive, so move on and enjoy life instead of thinking about this non-event. hiv prevention is straightforward since there are only 3 ways you can become infected, so next time you wonder if you had a risk, ask yourself this QUESTION. "Did I do any of the 3?" Then after you say "No, I didn't" you will know that it's time to move on back to your happy life.
No one got hiv from what you did during 40 years of hiv history and no one will get it in the next 40 years of your life either.  You can do what you did any time and be safe from hiv.
The other person's status is irrelevant when you have no exposure to live virus.
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Since you didn't answer the QUESTION I'll do it for you. No there wasn't a penis in my anus and she didn't inject me with a hollow needle while having sex so I had no risk and should move on instead of asking purposeless questions that just waste my own time.
I’m sorry and thank you for the reply
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