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DO I HAVE HIV?
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I'm 21 male. I recently visited to bangkok. The tour guide in bangkok told me about soapy massage and i was really interested in it. So i visited once. It cost about 2500bahts and 200 for tips so total 2900bahts. Firstly, the girl give me shower in bath tab, rubbing all over my body with her body, i think at that time my tip of penis may touch her pubis area, but surely no peneration. Then we two go to bed mattress and at that time i was very excited because it was my very first experience and i had never had sex before. Then she wears a condom on my penis and give me blowjob for about a 10 seconds. Then she puts my penis into her vagina. At that time i couldn't refuse. So, i had sex with her by wearing condoms. It only took less than 5 minutes for me to complete. Then she used some tissues and take off my condom. (P.S... i am circumcised.)During this sex, we even did not have french kiss. DO I HAVE HIV? AM I AT HIGH RISK? I'm now worrying too much and i'm deciding not to do that again in my life. I'm regreting now for that moment and matter. :'( Please let me know your opinions. Please Help.
With much Respects......
I'm 21 male. I recently visited to bangkok. The tour guide in bangkok told me about soapy massage and i was really interested in it. So i visited once. It cost about 2500bahts and 200 for tips so total 2900bahts. Firstly, the girl give me shower in bath tab, rubbing all over my body with her body, i think at that time my tip of penis may touch her pubis area, but surely no peneration. Then we two go to bed mattress and at that time i was very excited because it was my very first experience and i had never had sex before. Then she wears a condom on my penis and give me blowjob for about a 10 seconds. Then she puts my penis into her vagina. At that time i couldn't refuse. So, i had sex with her by wearing condoms. It only took less than 5 minutes for me to complete. Then she used some tissues and take off my condom. (P.S... i am circumcised.)During this sex, we even did not have french kiss. DO I HAVE HIV? AM I AT HIGH RISK? I'm now worrying too much and i'm deciding not to do that again in my life. I'm regreting now for that moment and matter. :'( Please let me know your opinions. Please Help.
With much Respects......
It's pretty much the best I could find. Also, if you find the original Wikipedia page, the citations for the information are given at the bottom.
The cited information can be found on Thailawforum
The cited information can be found on Thailawforum
I am not sure, but though it may be true I would be skeptical of all of them testing.
From Wikipedia
Prostitution had been illegal in Thailand[3] since 1960, when a law was passed under pressure from the United Nations. The government has instituted a system of monitoring sex workers in order to prevent their mistreatment and to control the spread of sexually transmitted diseases.[9] The 1960 Law was repealed by The Prevention and Suppression of Prostitution Act, B.E. 2539 (1996).
Thailand has an ancient, continuous tradition of legal texts, generally described under the heading of Dhammasattha literature (Thai pron., tam-ma-sat), wherein prostitution is variously defined, and universally banned. The era of traditional legal texts came to an end in the early 20th century, and the significance of these earlier texts on both the writ and spirit of modern legislation cannot be overlooked.[10]
The "Entertainment Places Act of 1966" is one of the modern laws regulating massage parlors, go-go bars, karaoke bars, bathhouses and similar establishments. Under this law such establishments are required to be licensed. The law does not expressedly permit prostitution, but allows for "service providers" and "bath service providers," differentiated from regular, non-sexual service staff.[11] For example, there are massage parlors where men come and look at women, who are sitting separated by a glass wall (known as a "fishbowl"), and may choose whom they want. The women go to a room where they bathe and massage the customers, but in reality may do much more than that.
The Prevention and Suppression of Prostitution Act, B.E. 2539 (1996) (the “Prostitution Law”), is the central legal framework prohibiting prostitution. The law defines prostitution as any act done to gratify the sexual desire of another in exchange for money or any other benefit, but only if it is done “in a promiscuous manner”. The Prostitution Law does not define what exactly a “promiscuous manner” constitutes, and the act of prostitution by itself is not outlawed anymore, while solicitation is. The crime of solicitation is vaguely defined.
A person soliciting the services of a prostitute is liable under the Prostitution Law if the solicitation is done “openly and shamelessly or causes a nuisance to the public”, the penalty being a fine of up to 1,000 baht.[11]
From Wikipedia
Prostitution had been illegal in Thailand[3] since 1960, when a law was passed under pressure from the United Nations. The government has instituted a system of monitoring sex workers in order to prevent their mistreatment and to control the spread of sexually transmitted diseases.[9] The 1960 Law was repealed by The Prevention and Suppression of Prostitution Act, B.E. 2539 (1996).
Thailand has an ancient, continuous tradition of legal texts, generally described under the heading of Dhammasattha literature (Thai pron., tam-ma-sat), wherein prostitution is variously defined, and universally banned. The era of traditional legal texts came to an end in the early 20th century, and the significance of these earlier texts on both the writ and spirit of modern legislation cannot be overlooked.[10]
The "Entertainment Places Act of 1966" is one of the modern laws regulating massage parlors, go-go bars, karaoke bars, bathhouses and similar establishments. Under this law such establishments are required to be licensed. The law does not expressedly permit prostitution, but allows for "service providers" and "bath service providers," differentiated from regular, non-sexual service staff.[11] For example, there are massage parlors where men come and look at women, who are sitting separated by a glass wall (known as a "fishbowl"), and may choose whom they want. The women go to a room where they bathe and massage the customers, but in reality may do much more than that.
The Prevention and Suppression of Prostitution Act, B.E. 2539 (1996) (the “Prostitution Law”), is the central legal framework prohibiting prostitution. The law defines prostitution as any act done to gratify the sexual desire of another in exchange for money or any other benefit, but only if it is done “in a promiscuous manner”. The Prostitution Law does not define what exactly a “promiscuous manner” constitutes, and the act of prostitution by itself is not outlawed anymore, while solicitation is. The crime of solicitation is vaguely defined.
A person soliciting the services of a prostitute is liable under the Prostitution Law if the solicitation is done “openly and shamelessly or causes a nuisance to the public”, the penalty being a fine of up to 1,000 baht.[11]
Thank you. By the way, i want to know that is that ture that the massage girls of entertainment complex in bkk have to undergo regular medical check up for HIV under the rule...
whoa... thank you very much and i'm much happier now.. i won't have sex with any other girl until i get married... the worry i got is more than enough with that once.. to be frankly, after that moment, i even cried...
By the way, let me tell "Thank You" again for your supportive words...
By the way, let me tell "Thank You" again for your supportive words...
Whatever HIV test you take the result will be negative. Save your money and never forget to use condom properly and nver share needles.
thanks you very much.. your words give me more strength... but i want to do testings..when should i start to test?
Sounds like a no risk good time to me. You were protected and your worrying is unwarranted. The good thing is that you are now more aware of HIV. As long as the condom does not tear you are fine.
None of the incidents you wrote put you at risk on HIV. Relax you never had any risk.
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