Hello , first sorry for my english im not a native speaker
Im 30yrs old male from south east asia never had any sexual encounter before. 27 day ago ( 21/7/2018) i visit massage parlor and had protected vaginal intercourse twice and unprotected oral (mutual) and deep fk for about all encounter probabbly happen 5-10mnt each , i dont have any sores in my mouth but i do shave my pubic hair area 2 hour prior and no visible cut as i remembered. We use diferrent condom for each penetration , im pretty sure the second one didnt break becausebi can see the semen on top of the condom tip after i ejaculate inside her but the first one im not really sure because i didnt ejaculate but i do remember seeing it intact for few second after pull out.what scares me is a week after the exposure i contact the place she works at and the clerk there told me she already resign due to health issue. Im in state of panic since then...
Here the list of my possible symptoms
9th day nasal congestion last for 3 day
10th day possible lymphnode left side ear near groin for few hour ( i poke that area extensively for past few day prior maybe that what cause it ) it subsided few hour later and back to normal
11th to 15th nasal congestion again
16 day post exposure diarrhea in the morning with intensity 3 times on first day 2 times on 2nd and 3rd day once on 4th day ( next morning my stool back to normal hard and solid again ) when to doctor the first day doctor gave me antibiotic and measure my bp around 100/90 the stool watery with bright yellow sandy like feces with a bit of naussea on the first and second day but not bed ridden, i was out of town from 14th to 17th and drink a lot of soda and spicy food prior the diarrhea on 16th doctor also told me its probabbly what cause my upset stomach/ traveller diarrhea, it always happen few hour after meal accompanied with lots of burping , gas , sometime pain my stomach.but no fever , rash , or other symptoms.
My question is :
1. What is my probabbility contracting hiv if during the first vaginal intercourse the condom fail / have tiny hole that i missed to notice and considering the csw hiv+ recently infected , seroconversion period and have high viral load at the time
2.is my symptoms of diarrhea on 16th day , naussea and nasal congestion typical of ars symptoms ?
3.is test at 28th day (duo) conclusive ?
Im planning to test for duo tommorrow at 28th day post exposure wish me luck