I'm worried to death... 13 days ago I kissed a stranger (a gay man) for about 5 minutes. I don't know his HIV status and I don't know if his mouth was bleeding or if he had any sores. When I came back home, I washed my mouth with a mouthwash product and I realised I had a sore throat and a sore tongue (I had burnt my tongue with hot food the day before). He refused to get tested, he seems not to be a person who tells the truth, in fact he seems very promiscous.
I am extremely worried I could have gotten HIV from him through my sores in my mouth and throat. Is it possible for me to get HIV this way?
I know in most sites it says that the risk is very small but I think I have been experiencing the ARS symptoms. These symptoms have been:
1) Headache during the day
2) Painful neck
3) Painful jaw
4) Night sweats (I get damp but not soaked) with chills until I get dry - I have had no fever though
5) Fatigue
6) Weight loss
7) Extreme anxiety
Unfortunately, my doctor advised me not to take PEP and I don't know if that was a mistake.
I regret so much :'(
I'm too stressed, I'm going crazy.
Please help me!!